Completing Our Personality Profile Online

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Laura25 Somewhere, New York USA
Why do you think people put the following info into their profiles \/

"I'm NOT superior,

NOT condescending,

NOT deceiving,

NOT manipulative,

NOT abusive,

NOT a doofus,

NOT etc., etc., ... "

...in order to give an accurate description of themselves?

What gives, peoples? hmmm



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longhairedwoman Calverton, New York USA
I dunno. Seems to me it'd be more productive to list what you are rather than what you aren't in a profile.
lrrh77 college station, Texas USA
maybe it's a cryptic way of saying "i feel like im none of these but im often told that i am all of these" Think of it as a warning label. laugh
bodleing Greater Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK
I dont know...but you cant argue with my profile.


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Laura25 Somewhere, New York USA
lrrh77: maybe it's a cryptic way of saying "i feel like im none of these but im often told that i am all of these" Think of it as a warning label.


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LOL!!!!! rolling on the floor laughing

That's exactly what I was thinking reading it doh innocent laugh
Laura25 Somewhere, New York USA
bodleing: I dont know...but you cant argue with my profile.


haha... No! Who are we to argue laugh dunno

It's their forum's contribution that contradict their profile statements.

Ya know,

it's how in a

"Better to remain silent and be thought a blah-blah than to speak out and remove all doubt" grin



'afternoon, G. wave wine
Laura25 Somewhere, New York USA
longhairedwoman: I dunno. Seems to me it'd be more productive to list what you are rather than what you aren't in a profile.


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Yep -- would be much more productive,

if there is something to list dunno laugh


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Shirley49WV Mason Co, West Virginia USA
Does make one wonder when it is written that way. I would rather see the positive things myself. wave
Laura25 Somewhere, New York USA
Shirley49WV: Does make one wonder when it is written that way. I would rather see the positive things myself.


lol... doesn't??

Well, laugh I capitalized 'NOT' (for more dramatic effect)... and added 'not a doofus' part blushing

The rest is an original writing doh thumbs up


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Hi Shirley wave
Shirley49WV Mason Co, West Virginia USA
Laura25: lol... doesn't??

Well, I capitalized 'NOT' (for more dramatic effect)... and added 'not a doofus' part

The rest is an original writing



Hi Shirley


Good afternoon wave
I am a big mouth, I am silly when Im not stupid, I am Fun except for when Im not,
I can breath means, i am still here somewhere

AM I OK?rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing laugh


Didnt think somumbling grin



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Laura25 Somewhere, New York USA
HotrodLarrys: I am a big mouth, I am silly when Im not stupid, I am Fun except for when Im not,
I can breath means, i am still here somewhere

AM I OK? Didnt think so
Just 4 U


Hiya, Larry wave

Being yourself = being REAL = just fine thumbs up

wine



It's when someone works so very hard to convince people that s/he is NOT-this-and-NOT-that, it's a very clear message, IMO.

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lrrh77 college station, Texas USA
Laura25: LOL!!!!!

That's exactly what I was thinking reading it


well in my experience in both internet and real world dating...if they say they're NOT something they're usually trying to convince themselves more than you.
Laura25 Somewhere, New York USA
lrrh77: well in my experience in both internet and real world dating...if they say they're NOT something they're usually trying to convince themselves more than you.


I agree.

They are trying to convince both:

you and themselves.

The same with people who keeps repeating "Trust me". violin
lrrh77 college station, Texas USA
Laura25: I agree.

They are trying to convince both:

you and themselves.

The same with people who keeps repeating "Trust me".


"trust me" people that say that are not worth trusting. rolling on the floor laughing
Laura25 Somewhere, New York USA
lrrh77: "trust me" people that say that are not worth trusting.



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no pun intended... conversing laugh
longhairedwoman Calverton, New York USA
How about the old, "You won't be disappointed!"

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Lesasbre Herning, Ringkobing Denmark
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solitare Up river from Concepcion Paraguay
Laura25: Why do you think people put the following info into their profiles /

"I'm NOT superior,

NOT condescending,

NOT deceiving,

NOT manipulative,

NOT abusive,

NOT a doofus,

NOT etc., etc., ... "

...in order to give an accurate description of themselves?

What gives, peoples?


Saying the above is sort of a contrary positive. Perhaps those writing what they are allegedly not, should also include an expiry date...like : "I am NOT a doofus" (expires Dec. 25, 2009)...that could clear up any lingering doubts; people can't live with doubts! They must know... now!laugh

(Hallo Laura!wave )
Laura25 Somewhere, New York USA
solitare: Saying the above is sort of a contrary positive. Perhaps those writing what they are allegedly not, should also include an expiry date...like : "I am NOT a doofus" (expires Dec. 25, 2009)...that could clear up any lingering doubts; people can't live with doubts! They must know... now!

(Hallo Laura! )


lightbulb Perhaps! thumbs up



Hello, Solitare! teddybear (NO expiration date)


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