Today's thought............

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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
A man who has committed a mistake and doesn't correct it is committing another mistake.
--Confucius--

When we are wrong, we must "promptly" admit it. We aren't used to admitting our mistakes. We defend ourselves or blame others. This is called denial.

Denial is bad for two reasons. First, it keeps us from learning from our mistakes, so we keep making them. Second, we don't listen to others, so we close off ourselves and become lonely.

What a relief it is to admit our wrongs! We don't have to keep trying to do things the hard way. We can learn new ways to think and act that will work better for us. We can let other people be our teachers.



Today, if I disagree with someone, I'll promptly admit it when I'm wrong. If I'm right, I'll be gentle. I don't have to prove anything.

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druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
HJFinAZ: A man who has committed a mistake and doesn't correct it is committing another mistake.
--Confucius--

When we are wrong, we must "promptly" admit it. We aren't used to admitting our mistakes. We defend ourselves or blame others. This is called denial.

Denial is bad for two reasons. First, it keeps us from learning from our mistakes, so we keep making them. Second, we don't listen to others, so we close off ourselves and become lonely.

What a relief it is to admit our wrongs! We don't have to keep trying to do things the hard way. We can learn new ways to think and act that will work better for us. We can let other people be our teachers.
Today, if I disagree with someone, I'll promptly admit it when I'm wrong. If I'm right, I'll be gentle. I don't have to prove anything.


rolling on the floor laughing And I sure do admit those foibles on here a lot, Pat!

A good point about admitting when we're wrong. So many are incapable of doing so, and that's a big part of what destoys relationships. wine
nottoo2525 Edmonton, Alberta Canada
Me too.
Find it doesn't cost much to apologize or admit your dorkiness at times........doh
Conrad73 Lonesome Town Zurich, Zrich Switzerland
HJFinAZ: A man who has committed a mistake and doesn't correct it is committing another mistake.
--Confucius--

When we are wrong, we must "promptly" admit it. We aren't used to admitting our mistakes. We defend ourselves or blame others. This is called denial.

Denial is bad for two reasons. First, it keeps us from learning from our mistakes, so we keep making them. Second, we don't listen to others, so we close off ourselves and become lonely.

What a relief it is to admit our wrongs! We don't have to keep trying to do things the hard way. We can learn new ways to think and act that will work better for us. We can let other people be our teachers.
Today, if I disagree with someone, I'll promptly admit it when I'm wrong. If I'm right, I'll be gentle. I don't have to prove anything.
....and I thought Denial was a River!wow wow innocent




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