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Sorry you are hurting.
Sh*t happens but this too shall pass.
Take your time to choose wisely whom you can trust with your heart, you'll see the difference.

Welcome to CS and good luck.

its called rebound or sympathy f...k

we know yall have that "nurturing" gene in ya and so we use it to our advantage.... just like you use your monthly issues, gold digging tactics, fake boobs, push up bras, make up, ditsy deceptions, etc etc....

its life... deal with it !!!!

you are just getting started... it gets worse....before it gets better for yall....

eventually you'll find some poor misguided soul to fall into your trap and you'll be able to pull the strings to make him your little puppet.... and if you pull em right he may never realize how screwed he is !!!!

Oh Heck.. You tricked me again...
I read the title of this thread and thought
it was one of my ex-wives calling me...
Instead...
some whining woman ranting about her failed relationship.
If men make you sooo unhappy...
Try a female...
still not satisfied..??
Try a "rabbit"..
Jeepers Sweet pea............
If I had all the answers...
I'd not be here either..
---SoldierByte---

I'm curious as to what your doing lookin' in their outbox.

I wondered that too

Me three.

I'm sorry, but you have trust issues.

I would love to know how it is done, may save a whole lot of later problems

Women are stupid if they break up with a man and still go into his profile to check his mail rather than throwing away the password, and then expect to see no activity.

Nope, no sympathy for you here for this one.

It appears you can get it done by staying with the guy after you broke up with him. You can keep from having more problems by leaving when it is over!

Yep, that was my other thought on this...why did she have that access in the first place?

Well do not be so nosy, you have nothing but yourself to blame, peeping at his inbox. Major trust issues there. If you are sick of it, why are you bothering. Now if you have not already got one I suggest your go purchase yourself a Rabbit as SB mentioned. This is a good substitute and will prevent you from getting pissed off at men and running them into the ground.

Thank you, I just never get as far as that.

Jeez peoples, from the 3-line post you all know what and whom to blame

The girl is 18, ffs

If one of the regulars posted about being upset and hurt, the reaction would be quite different I recon.

Me too. I didn't know you could do that...

After my ex had broken up yet his 5th girl-on-a-string and had a matter of days later started up another one, I asked him if he thought he might be doing any damage to our son's image of women and relationships.

His response was: "Unlike you, who believes I should sulk around for weeks on end, I won't let any woman make me miserable for more than a day or two."

He married that last one. Engaged after two months, married four months later...

Think it will last???

guys tend to hold in there emotions and try to hide it

this leads to guys seeming as tho they dont care,

hes trying to get with someone fast because he is after being going thro a breakup and is more of a rebound

guys deal with emotions in there own way. guys question how girls show theres.

i cant describe it in words to 100 percent accuracy but i hope it leads to a small understanding

Hmm think they are looking for sympathy and maybe can't bear to be alone or maybe they were sending those other messages all along. Don't bother thinking about it. ignore them

Frankly my dear.... we don`t care....

(demn... am i cold or what??? ....)