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tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:23 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
You've been seeing someone for some time and you've gotten to the point of intimacy, things have gotten hot and heavy, you may have even gotten to the point of taking off everything and either at the beginning or in the middle and for whatever reason the lady backs out of the sex. How would you handle this situation? Would you get mad or upset with the woman? Blame yourself and think you did something wrong?
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gopi59 limassol, Limassol Cyprus
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:30 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
tainogirl: You've been seeing someone for some time and you've gotten to the point of intimacy, things have gotten hot and heavy, you may have even gotten to the point of taking off everything and either at the beginning or in the middle and for whatever reason the lady backs out of the sex. How would you handle this situation? Would you get mad or upset with the woman? Blame yourself and think you did something wrong?


Forget it! Just Find somebody else..............
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Englishman55 Cortona, Tuscany Italy
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:33 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
tainogirl: You've been seeing someone for some time and you've gotten to the point of intimacy, things have gotten hot and heavy, you may have even gotten to the point of taking off everything and either at the beginning or in the middle and for whatever reason the lady backs out of the sex. How would you handle this situation? Would you get mad or upset with the woman? Blame yourself and think you did something wrong?


Would respect her wishes and try to talk through what the problem is.
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jlb684 Athens, Attica Greece
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:33 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
Hi, Taino,

You asked how guys would handle it, but what about women?
I mean, if I'm with a guy and things are hot and heavy and clothes have come off and we're at the beginning or in the middle, and he backs out....

Wait a sec.

Never mind.
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RDM59 Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:36 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
tainogirl: You've been seeing someone for some time and you've gotten to the point of intimacy, things have gotten hot and heavy, you may have even gotten to the point of taking off everything and either at the beginning or in the middle and for whatever reason the lady backs out of the sex. How would you handle this situation? Would you get mad or upset with the woman? Blame yourself and think you did something wrong?


I would not travel by bus with her again .........laugh rolling on the floor laughing
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LadyPhoenix1965 Chesterland, Ohio USA
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:37 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
Englishman55: Would respect her wishes and try to talk through what the problem is.


Racking up the brownie points! smitten
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drbombay virginia beach, Virginia USA
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:38 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
I would say no problem and roll over and masturbate.rolling on the floor laughing
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tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:38 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
jlb684: Hi, Taino,

You asked how guys would handle it, but what about women?
I mean, if I'm with a guy and things are hot and heavy and clothes have come off and we're at the beginning or in the middle, and he backs out....

Wait a sec.

Never mind.


Aw C'mon now, you're doing the same thing leaving us hanging in suspense.laugh
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jlb684 Athens, Attica Greece
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:42 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
tainogirl: Aw C'mon now, you're doing the same thing leaving us hanging in suspense.


Hehe laugh

My comment was a thinly veiled (and, apparently, poorly executed) attempt to imply that no man would ever get that far and then back out. laugh
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tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:44 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
jlb684: Hehe

My comment was a thinly veiled (and, apparently, poorly executed) attempt to imply that no man would ever get that far and then back out.


WOO HOO! YOU GO GIRL!applause cheering
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Englishman55 Cortona, Tuscany Italy
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:46 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
LadyPhoenix1965: Racking up the brownie points!


Some good threads going tonight, but unfortunately I am off out for the evening so will miss it all.

Hopefully see you all later folks... have a good evening
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feathersteve scarborough, North Yorkshire, England UK
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:47 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
jlb684: Hehe

My comment was a thinly veiled (and, apparently, poorly executed) attempt to imply that no man would ever get that far and then back out.
hey jlb684 i would never leave you in suspense wink devil
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LadyPhoenix1965 Chesterland, Ohio USA
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:48 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
jlb684: Hehe

My comment was a thinly veiled (and, apparently, poorly executed) attempt to imply that no man would ever get that far and then back out.


That's probably true. What about the times it's a 'performance' issue, over before begun, then what do you - we - do???
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drbombay virginia beach, Virginia USA
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:48 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
jlb684: Hehe

My comment was a thinly veiled (and, apparently, poorly executed) attempt to imply that no man would ever get that far and then back out.
I had previous experience and believe me I learned to use the big head, not the small one mind over matter and the little guy does what I tell him. laugh cheers
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LadyPhoenix1965 Chesterland, Ohio USA
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:49 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
Englishman55: Some good threads going tonight, but unfortunately I am off out for the evening so will miss it all.

Hopefully see you all later folks... have a good evening


Bye English!!! Hope it's a date, and hope she's FABULOUS!!! You deserve it! cheering
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tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:52 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
drbombay: I had previous experience and believe me I learned to use the big head, not the small one mind over matter and the little guy does what I tell him.


Glad to hear that there are men who have sucessfully wrestled power away from the little head.wine
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LadyPhoenix1965 Chesterland, Ohio USA
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:56 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
tainogirl: Glad to hear that there are men who have sucessfully wrestled power away from the little head.


AMEN to THAT! Kudos, the Doctor is IN! (Oh, that didn't come out right, did it?)
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jlb684 Athens, Attica Greece
Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:56 AM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
LadyPhoenix1965: That's probably true. What about the times it's a 'performance' issue, over before begun, then what do you - we - do???


Well, that's a horse of a different color (or, not really a horse, exactly)....
If it's a performance issue, I certainly wouldn't get angry with the man. After all, I doubt he'd be too pleased with himself, so what good would it do for me to add to his anguish? If it's a matter of selfishness, then this is another matter entirely.
I don't deal so well with selfishness. Once, twice...maybe...but an established pattern of selfishness tells me a lot and this is not the kind of man I want in my life.
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freemind63 Marbella, Andalucia Spain
Mon Nov 9, 2009 12:02 PM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
In response to: You've been seeing someone for some time and you've gotten to the point of intimacy, things have gotten hot and heavy, you may have even gotten to the point of taking off everything and either at the beginning or in the middle and for whatever reason the lady backs out of the sex. How would you handle this situation? Would you get mad or upset with the woman? Blame yourself and think you did something wrong?


Never happened to me, but I guess my reaction WOULD depend on the reason why she backs out.

"I mean, for crying out loud, right at this very moment you wanna call your mum?????"

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tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago
Mon Nov 9, 2009 12:02 PM CST : Guys how would you handle this?
Englishman55: Would respect her wishes and try to talk through what the problem is.


I guess if EITHER party is having problems, talking about it is better than getting upset.
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