amelie13: I'm not sure what you've found is different about dating in today's dating world - or what you would change if you could. The best advice I can give you is don't change for anyone - be yourself. Somewhere out there is the perfect girl for you who is probably just as dissatisfied with todays dating scene as you may be.
Also, guys who really like their lives & are happy people are like catnip to most women. If you really like yourself as a person, most women will too.
Hi, Thanks for all your tips guys. Dating is so much more different today. First off there is the internet and sites like these. I am never sure what to say in a first email to a lady and therefore end up not saying much and get few replies. Second there is no good places to meet people anymore. I go to the odd night club now but I feel so old as when I look around all I see are women are 21 and 22 and everything is based on looks. The odd time I have managed to find someone my own age or somewhat older and managed to get speaking to them I find they one want casual relationship or a one night stand.
So maybe its just me, but today dating is just hard and I am out of practise.