Do a lot of women have this problem

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tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago

Tue Nov 10, 2009 4:21 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

I keep seeing an awful lot of complaints from men that women don't reply to them when they make contact. Is the same true for women making contact? Do a lot of women find themselves being snubbed by a lot of the men they contact? If most women find they will recieve at least a I'm not interested note (at least some of the times) and guys don't even get that, then what could be the reason?

adiva_a auckland, Auckland New Zealand

Tue Nov 10, 2009 4:25 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

haha they seem to complain about alot of things ahah . like us being naggy and fake and bitches and now they suddelnly need us and are now complaining bout us not replying to them > i dotn get it..?

Boban1 Pozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia

Tue Nov 10, 2009 4:29 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

tainogirl: I keep seeing an awful lot of complaints from men that women don't reply to them when they make contact. Is the same true for women making contact? Do a lot of women find themselves being snubbed by a lot of the men they contact? If most women find they will recieve at least a I'm not interested note (at least some of the times) and guys don't even get that, then what could be the reason?

we have an expression ,in my country, has to do with her nose and the clouds .....

tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago

Tue Nov 10, 2009 4:33 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

Boban1: we have an expression ,in my country, has to do with her nose and the clouds .....

Can't imagine anyone turning you down Boban.

AudrysSis Riga, Riga Latvia

Tue Nov 10, 2009 4:37 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

tainogirl: )..)women don't reply to them when they make contact. Is the same true for women making contact?

To be really honest, I don't even notice that anymore. Whenever I feel inspired (and that is quite often), I do a search, look through tons of profiles and send out quite a few flowers. Then I forget about it all and get back to my work (or fun!). If anyone replies, great, if they don't, I've probably already forgotten them anyway.

I used to take it to the heart when someone I was interested in (by reading their profile) wouldn't reply, but now I've really installed a revolving door here. Whatever their reasons for not responding, I don't care - I am only focusing on the ones that do respond and wish to talk. :)

tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago

Tue Nov 10, 2009 4:37 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

adiva_a: haha they seem to complain about alot of things ahah . like us being naggy and fake and bitches and now they suddelnly need us and are now complaining bout us not replying to them > i dotn get it..?

Can't live with us yet cannnot live without us?

Boban1 Pozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia

Tue Nov 10, 2009 4:38 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

tainogirl: Can't imagine anyone turning you down Boban.

just because i have sent my pictures in the nude ,to every woman on CS ... and have asked for cyber sex from them... doesn't mean ,they should block me....

tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago

Tue Nov 10, 2009 4:41 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

Boban1: just because i have sent my pictures in the nude ,to every woman on CS ... and have asked for cyber sex from them... doesn't mean ,they should block me....

I must have been offline that day.

Pixels London, Outer London, England UK

Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:09 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

tainogirl: I keep seeing an awful lot of complaints from men that women don't reply to them when they make contact. Is the same true for women making contact? Do a lot of women find themselves being snubbed by a lot of the men they contact? If most women find they will recieve at least a I'm not interested note (at least some of the times) and guys don't even get that, then what could be the reason?

Just not interested? Not sure about a not interested note is necessary but a thank you may be nice

feathersteve scarborough, North Yorkshire, England UK

Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:13 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

tainogirl: I keep seeing an awful lot of complaints from men that women don't reply to them when they make contact. Is the same true for women making contact? Do a lot of women find themselves being snubbed by a lot of the men they contact? If most women find they will recieve at least a I'm not interested note (at least some of the times) and guys don't even get that, then what could be the reason?

even a thanks but no thanks would be nice

Odysseus101 Roma, Lazio Italy

Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:17 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

Nah, I don't mind if someone doesn't reply to a mail from me...the world today is so hectic and busy, and 10% of women on here get 90% of the mail, so it becomes a hassle and a chore. I totally understand, but at the same time am very impressed by women who take the time out to reply...it's just human courtesy. I reply to every mail I get.

None so far....

darksea54 bronx, New York USA

Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:18 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

I agree with you thank or no thanks it's all it take's

feathersteve: even a thanks but no thanks would be nice

heidi2765 Lisboa, Lisboa Portugal

Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:19 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

Boban1: just because i have sent my pictures in the nude ,to every woman on CS ... and have asked for cyber sex from them... doesn't mean ,they should block me....

Just looked at my inbox, didn't find your nude pics in the unopened posts!!!

tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago

Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:23 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

You know what's interesting, I'm going to assume that there are lots of decent fellows on CS genuinely looking for someone and who write a decent first contact letter for those types of men I have no problem replying even if its to say not interested - but I meet mostly scammers and I'm even gracious enough to respond to the scammer types although those responces are never very nice and they probably wished I didn't.

TheresMyFriend Gadsden, Alabama USA

Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:25 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

tainogirl: I keep seeing an awful lot of complaints from men that women don't reply to them when they make contact. Is the same true for women making contact? Do a lot of women find themselves being snubbed by a lot of the men they contact? If most women find they will recieve at least a I'm not interested note (at least some of the times) and guys don't even get that, then what could be the reason?

I don't know about other guy's that "don't answer" mail that women send them...but either I always send a reply back(even to scams)or I send a pre-edited "form letter"!!

Sundown40 Houston, Missouri USA

Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:25 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

feathersteve: even a thanks but no thanks would be nice

Hiya Steve

How have you been bud? I answer all my emails. Yes even the scammers

feathersteve scarborough, North Yorkshire, England UK

Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:25 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

darksea54: I agree with you thank or no thanks it's all it take's

hi darksea54 , my mother always said manners cost nothing

tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago

Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:31 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

feathersteve: hi darksea54 , my mother always said manners cost nothing

Even my good training in manners is bound to run out sometime - especially if said writer can't seem to remember if he's the age he states in his profile or the one he puts in his first contact mail or just can't decide which country he's from. At that stage you're just begging to be ignored.

rubendario Hartford, Connecticut USA

Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:31 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

In the beginning, when I first joined this site, I was not sure..and I did not respond to a few...now I respond to them all...even scammers.

Anyone who takes the time to write to me get's a response, it's the right thing to do. Treat others in the same way you would like to be treated.

rubendario Hartford, Connecticut USA

Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:35 PM CST : Do a lot of women have this problem?

tainogirl: Even my good training in manners is bound to run out sometime - especially if said writer can't seem to remember if he's the age he states in his profile or the one he puts in his first contact mail or just can't decide which country he's from. At that stage you're just begging to be ignored.

I must agree, some contact emails are so ridiculous that they do not merit a response..as it's very obvious...it was never written with either sincerity or seriousness in mind!!!

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