its4dale: I have not been dating much the ten years I have been divorced. I thought things were turning around for me when I met a beautiful young lady on another singles "fishing" site. We got along really well. She lives close to me and really enjoyed riding with me. I cared a lot for this woman.
She sent me her MySpace page. It was interesting but I did not look closely at it for quite some time. My mistake! She listed herself as "In A Relationship". OK, that could have been a failure to update her profile, that happens. For all I knew she was talking about me. As I looked closer at the page I found postings from all of these male friends. She has a history of Fire Department, EMS, and military affiliations. Those postings don't necessarily mean she is stringing us all along do they?
As time went by more and more questionable things popped up. Finally enough happened to draw me out of my fantasy land. I was some kind of naive! This woman was playing games on a scale I had no idea existed! I am fortunate I did not want a relationship based on sex, there is no telling what kind of diseases I might have been given.
Wake up guys! I know too well what it is like to be lonely but keep your eyes open! Deceit, lies, and game playing are no longer just for men! Don't be so quick to jump in the sack, that stuff can kill you these days. I have not given up, I do not like living alone. You can bet I will be much more careful!
Well I met someone on here who declared they loved me and wanted me to move to Holland after just 1 meeting, then i discover he is back on here and his attitude is so cold, I can only assume he is angry because I wanted more time and didn't like me asking him why he was back on here after we had agreed not to because we were chatting so much I thought with view to a relationship. Take Care
