Once upon a time , a young girl ask a young man if he wanted to marry her ...
The young man said "NO!!!"
Since then the young girl has lived a very happy life , not having to cook , to do laundry and ironing for nobody but her, she goes out with her friends when she feels like it , has sex with whoever she wants , having a good job and spending her money the way she pleases
The problem is nobody told us THAT story when we were young ....
Instead they got us all in trouble with that fooking prince charming story.