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Not good to contact her again ,she left u and played

It's quite obvious that she's not over him
and,quite obvious that she's a player.
Fecking players.

Tell her take a hike if she wants u back

they was broke up for 3 years know back together again

I cannot speak for anyone else..
but ANY woman I've ever dated,
been with,
had a relationship with, or was
"more then a pal" with..
Would I have said something like that to THEM..
I'd of got a slap and a "good bye"..
NONE of my woman would accept being
"second best" to ANY other woman..
If you feel it is a "place" you can accept and
be happy with in HER priorities....
well..
that is a decision only YOU can make..
I doubt I'd ever even "talk" to a woman
whom considered me as on her "back-up" list..
But to each their own..
good luck..
and keep us posted on your decision and what transpires
---SoldierByte---

I doubt I'd ever even "talk" to a woman
whom considered me as on her "back-up" list..scold
But to each their own..<<<<<<<< Well said Soilder

she is a player dont give her another chance i did that once and it fucked me up bad

opps i also forgot she has told me this man is abusive etc.. and mean to her she told me one screw up hes done....

a prime example of good guys (me) finish last....

For get this good guy finishes last state of mind...

It's good guy meets wrong girl!!!

Move on to the next one...and makes sure the next one is nothing like this one!! Good luck!!

I would drop her fast. There are a lot more honest women out there who are looking for a real relationship. I had similar relationships where I thought we had something good and she goes back to her ex. Life is too short to play games with someone who is less than honest with themselves and others.

Been there before.

She's sounds like a player to me.There's no way that you should take her back.

Let me be truthful. I'm 90+% over my ex. We had a wonderful relationship; until I'm 100% over her I don't believe it is fair for me to commit to another person........... I'm almost there but not quite!

PRETENDING to commit to another person could/would mean more people getting hurt.

I don't wish to play with the emotions of other people. I'd like to feel I was a sincere kind of guy.

Life can be complicated - if you let it be complicated.

Making a decision in the short term that you know you might regret in the long term is no way to make decisions.

100% commitment from both parties ensures that these kind of complications need never happen; either you are 100% committed or you aren't............. if you expect 100% committment from the other person then it's only fair you give the same in return - if you can't then don't mess with another human being's heart - male or female!

The truth can hurt, but lying, even to yourself, can hurt a whole shit more!

I think anyone that plays with anothers emotions is really unfair, to wait and see what happens would be crazy and hurt even more, you deserve better

Thanks Morgan......... I'd not want to be considered a 'player'!

Well written!!

Ask yourself; "How does it feel to be hanging on a string." You'll find your own resolve.

So very true Robert and well written