itsallme112: The best website is probably in your home town,just like younger women. Do you have the skills to make friends with older women? If older women are called cougars, what do they call older men? Perhaps you should stop looking for cougars and search for older women who are also attractive.
Good answer. Any "cougar" website is going to have questionable members. You really might get bitten there, just like any "sugar daddy" website. A sincere woman who is open to loving a man of any age would not be at a "cougar" dating site. Only women who are actively interested in that demographic would be members, so be sure what their motivations are and that they match yours.