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jade76179 ft worth, Texas USA
Fri Nov 13, 2009 8:41 PM CST : dirty dick
i very recently seperated from my husband and there is no chance of a mending things up. been together for 7 yrs and the last 2 yrs or so i have found out he was cheating on me.this last yr he has been to iraq and just got back a cpl months ago.the month he came home he booked us a cruise and i found out later he actually slept with some broad the last night of the cruise.not only that but while he was deployed there were SEVERAL chicks he had quite extensive relationships with all during the same time frame.and most if not all the bitches knew he was married and were sitting around in hopes he would divorce me.(to say the least i took care of that prob for them)before i saw the whole ugly truth of things my self i had suspected something was going on and talked with him about a divorce before and during the deployment.to say the least he pledged his love to me and showered me with money flowers and expensive gifts while he was deployed.then he gets home and the fling on the cruise happens,i discover numerous social sites where he is looking for intimate enccounters(w/women and swingers)and his secret yahoo account he had funneled hundreds of emails from his"girlfriendS" and flings to.of course he denys everything even with the all the proof staring at him in his face and i will prob get no closure for myself regarding his deceit.im so angry i cant even be heartbroken.im embarassed at the very least to have said that i loved this man at one point.i never even knew him obviously.
at this point nothing he could say or do would change my mind about the divorce but i admit i wonder what is his problem? is it a sex addiction bcuz most of the braods r not even remotely attractive. besides i just dont understand why he didnt wanna a divorce and went thru all the extra effort to make it seem like i was his "one and only".i guess i just want aome insight to his behavior since i will never really get closure of my own.dunno
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drbombay virginia beach, Virginia USA
Fri Nov 13, 2009 8:50 PM CST : dirty dick
There are men(not all) think with the little head instead of the big one and it's enticing and excuse me for being frank-a new piece. Once a liar, always a liar, in other words cannot be trusted(betrayal is the worst), I know. GL-time is the only healer I found.comfort wine
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wonderworker cosby, Tennessee USA
Fri Nov 13, 2009 8:54 PM CST : dirty dick
Contrary to popular opinion...."Moby Dick"is Not a social disease.
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jade76179 ft worth, Texas USA
Fri Nov 13, 2009 9:08 PM CST : dirty dick
drbombay: There are men(not all) think with the little head instead of the big one and it's enticing and excuse me for being frank-a new piece. Once a liar, always a liar, in other words cannot be trusted(betrayal is the worst), I know. GL-time is the only healer I found.




yes despite his disgusting behavior i cant believe that all men r like this.but by god u shoulda seen the "new pieceS" he was with. to say the very least i couldnt even be offended or jealous.mayb emabarassed to say i was with a man with such horrible taste.mayb he kept me around as his trophy wife lol idk.at least i can say my self esteem hasnt suffered much because of this and im thankful for that much
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SatelliteServer Toronto, Ontario Canada
Sun Nov 15, 2009 9:38 PM CST : dirty dick
I hate freak'n cheaters, dated this one girl and did not get to close as I had a feel'n she was just a bit on the wild side and needles to say I was right, so when she tried to damage my heart I left quietly and then I was moving so I decided to make an early exit, on my way outta town I called to say goodbye and she was upset that I was leaving and it did not affect me for her shit....

She told me to keep her number and wanted to give me the address I told her I had no pen and said goodbye, she was sad and I laughed all the way out of town....
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jujugal Washington, New Jersey USA
Sun Nov 15, 2009 9:49 PM CST : dirty dick
Jade, he is a typical man. Wants his cake and eats it too.devil
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jade76179 ft worth, Texas USA
Sun Nov 15, 2009 10:06 PM CST : dirty dick
rolling on the floor laughing good for u!haha
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100percentReal24 Canton, Georgia USA
Sun Nov 15, 2009 10:18 PM CST : dirty dick
I have been in the exact same spot you are in, my husband cheated on me with numerous girls, and the one i confronted had a mustache, LMAO>> I cant begin to tell you why they do what they do but he begged me not to leave him and swore he loved me, and still to this day says he wants to get me back, (When hell freezes over). And like you i wasnt even heartbroken, I was pissed because he ruined my happy life and our family, and disguisted becuase the girls were nasty, (i found out after the fact i knew some of them from my past). And since then i am happy being single,i look better and i feel better. I hope the best for you, i know the situation sucks but it can be a good thing.
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Layla78 Mexicali, Baja California Mexico
Sun Nov 15, 2009 10:32 PM CST : dirty dick
Husbands, boyfriends... is always the same history. I just dont understand what do men have in their minds when they act like that... they are just like animals acting by instinct loosing their rationality. It is so sad that honest an respectful men are almost extinct.
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jlw45 duncanville, Texas USA
Sun Nov 15, 2009 10:40 PM CST : dirty dick
everybody be careful, there's two dirty dicks on the messege board...uh oh
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Laura25 Somewhere, New York USA
Sun Nov 15, 2009 10:49 PM CST : dirty dick
jlw45: everybody be careful, there's two dirty dicks on the messege board...


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


banana banana







P.S. Sorry OP, but that was funny rolling on the floor laughing

Hiya Joel bouquet
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jlw45 duncanville, Texas USA
Sun Nov 15, 2009 10:51 PM CST : dirty dick
Laura25: P.S. Sorry OP, but that was funny

Hiya Joel
hiya, miss laura....wave grin

oh and BTW....i'm not one of 'em....scold uh oh


rolling on the floor laughing
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robinrey La Paz, Baja California Sur Mexico
Mon Nov 16, 2009 7:28 AM CST : dirty dick
fact is it works both ways, I know, my wife did it.

Wifes , girlfriends..is always the same history. I just don't understand what do women have in their minds when they act like that..they are just like animals acting by instinct loosing their rationality. It is so sad that honest and respectable women are almost extinct..
There is a trust problem between man and women in Mexico, it starts with jealousy. No trust.
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jade76179 ft worth, Texas USA
Mon Nov 16, 2009 10:11 AM CST : dirty dick
jlw45: everybody be careful, there's two dirty dicks on the messege board...

ya oops!sry everybody i double posted by mistake.lol
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gordy22222 whitehorse, Yukon Territory Canada
Mon Nov 16, 2009 10:18 AM CST : dirty dick
a friend of mine is called dirty dick, hes the guy who would drop a cut off human toe in your drink . he did it to me ..my number is 6753 in 1986
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Pixels London, Outer London, England UK
Tue Nov 17, 2009 4:01 AM CST : dirty dick
In response to: i very recently seperated from my husband and there is no chance of a mending things up. been together for 7 yrs and the last 2 yrs or so i have found out he was cheating on me.this last yr he has been to iraq and just got back a cpl months ago.the month he came home he booked us a cruise and i found out later he actually slept with some broad the last night of the cruise.not only that but while he was deployed there were SEVERAL chicks he had quite extensive relationships with all during the same time frame.and most if not all the bitches knew he was married and were sitting around in hopes he would divorce me.(to say the least i took care of that prob for them)before i saw the whole ugly truth of things my self i had suspected something was going on and talked with him about a divorce before and during the deployment.to say the least he pledged his love to me and showered me with money flowers and expensive gifts while he was deployed.then he gets home and the fling on the cruise happens,i discover numerous social sites where he is looking for intimate enccounters(w/women and swingers)and his secret yahoo account he had funneled hundreds of emails from his"girlfriendS" and flings to.of course he denys everything even with the all the proof staring at him in his face and i will prob get no closure for myself regarding his deceit.im so angry i cant even be heartbroken.im embarassed at the very least to have said that i loved this man at one point.i never even knew him obviously.
at this point nothing he could say or do would change my mind about the divorce but i admit i wonder what is his problem? is it a sex addiction bcuz most of the braods r not even remotely attractive. besides i just dont understand why he didnt wanna a divorce and went thru all the extra effort to make it seem like i was his "one and only".i guess i just want aome insight to his behavior since i will never really get closure of my own.


It is incredibly sad this has happened, but only he can tell you why he is doing these things and I would suggest you both see a counsellor if you want to attempt to save your marraige. If not move on and find a better partner. Take Care wave
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Grandepensees Brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium
Tue Nov 17, 2009 4:08 AM CST : dirty dick
Just another cheatin' story... It happens every day from both sexes... What did you think, that he will go on deployment and spend a year or two not having sex? Some guys would rather have sex than breathe laugh
Get someone who will actually be with you and not at the other end of the earth, simple.dunno
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Merriweather Adelaide, South Australia Australia
Tue Nov 17, 2009 4:41 AM CST : dirty dick
Grandepensees: Just another cheatin' story... It happens every day from both sexes... What did you think, that he will go on deployment and spend a year or two not having sex? Some guys would rather have sex than breathe
Get someone who will actually be with you and not at the other end of the earth, simple.



That's a bit harsh.... where is your compassion?
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Grandepensees Brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium
Tue Nov 17, 2009 7:00 AM CST : dirty dick
I reserve it for those who deserve it
Merriweather: That's a bit harsh.... where is your compassion?
sleep
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Anuna Ulan-Bator Mongolia
Tue Nov 17, 2009 7:18 AM CST : dirty dick
hi in my opinion it's hard to understand mandoh doh
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