You Want Him...He Doesn't Want You...

wikked
Ajax, Ontario Canada

Posted: Aug 26, 2006, 11:51 PM CST

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I don't think that has anything to do with you. It has to do with them and how they feel about themselves. If their initial thought of you is, you don’t deserve them, they’re properly right. After all, at this point they know them self better that you do and they should think better of their self.

As far as happiness, nobody on this planet but myself can make me happy. It is a decision of self.

Should you let your self go? If that’s going to make you feel good about yourself, go for it but some how I doubt this.

Sounds like it’s a string of wrong guys and if you choose to give up then you will never find him and that would be a shame for you and him.

Thanks Ron...

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Unionjoe
Media, Pennsylvania USA

Posted: Aug 26, 2006, 11:52 PM CST

I have been in this dillema for a while now. I have chosen to remain a friend, and wait. But I have been waiting for a while now....and hope is drying up. Friendship is great, and I want friendship, especially for her, but....I want more, too.

I want her to feel the same connection.

Is that crazy?

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Justadreamerhere

Posted: Aug 26, 2006, 11:55 PM CST

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I have been in this dillema for a while now. I have chosen to remain a friend, and wait. But I have been waiting for a while now....and hope is drying up. Friendship is great, and I want friendship, especially for her, but....I want more, too.

I want her to feel the same connection.

Is that crazy?

not crazy...but perhaps since your feelings are known and theres still nothing from her side of it? then its time to take your wonderful self and find a woman that will love and appreciate all that....

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wikked
Ajax, Ontario Canada

Posted: Aug 26, 2006, 11:58 PM CST

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I have been in this dillema for a while now. I have chosen to remain a friend, and wait. But I have been waiting for a while now....and hope is drying up. Friendship is great, and I want friendship, especially for her, but....I want more, too.

I want her to feel the same connection.

Is that crazy?

I agree Joe...though i applaud your persistance (some women do need it...lol) sometimes you just have to know when to cry "uncle"...but then again...what is the old saying???

You don't know what you're missing til the well runs dry....

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Unionjoe
Media, Pennsylvania USA

Posted: Aug 26, 2006, 11:58 PM CST

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not crazy...but perhaps since your feelings are known and theres still nothing from her side of it? then its time to take your wonderful self and find a woman that will love and appreciate all that....

Ah, wonderful Kris, that is the question....how long does one wait and hope?

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Justadreamerhere

Posted: Aug 27, 2006, 12:02 AM CST

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Ah, wonderful Kris, that is the question....how long does one wait and hope?

well hon...if there were some mutual feelings being displayed..then maybe for a while....if theres not much contact or effort or feelings toward a relationship in any way....then run joe run....you are a nice man and deserve to be way more to someone....

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Unionjoe
Media, Pennsylvania USA

Posted: Aug 27, 2006, 12:06 AM CST

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well hon...if there were some mutual feelings being displayed..then maybe for a while....if theres not much contact or effort or feelings toward a relationship in any way....then run joe run....you are a nice man and deserve to be way more to someone....

Thanks Kris. Now if I could just convince the rest of the cs population of that......

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cajunfroggy
Waco, Texas USA

Posted: Aug 27, 2006, 12:10 AM CST

in a relationship noone should have to put his/her feelings behind the others if the person you are interested in cant take you at face then tough you dont need that in life because they will always question what and why are you doing this or that

Wikked if no man can see you for the wonderful person you are then its his lose(sp) i know its hard not to have someone to love and hold but its better in my eyes to have nothing or noone in this case then to have that person lie to you

The Local CS Froggester

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mastic55
Long Island, New York USA

Posted: Aug 27, 2006, 12:13 AM CST

Well said.

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AKDOPhd

Posted: Aug 27, 2006, 12:13 AM CST

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Ah, wonderful Kris, that is the question....how long does one wait and hope?

hey Joe if ya want i'll give you these answers over the phone.................

or you could sign in for the fall semester at the Academy!!....sweety

wait ...and the universe waits with you......

drop the agenda

drop the expectation

a real friend cleans their house anyway when they want to receive guests (internally)

peace to you....xxx

alex

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kentuckygirlge

Posted: Aug 27, 2006, 12:18 AM CST

are we talking about ky here,

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wikked
Ajax, Ontario Canada

Posted: Aug 27, 2006, 12:19 AM CST

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are we talking about ky here,

Hey Kathy...long time no see...

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Unionjoe
Media, Pennsylvania USA

Posted: Aug 27, 2006, 12:19 AM CST

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are we talking about ky here,

Why, kentuckygirlge, do you feel this way also?

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cajunfroggy
Waco, Texas USA

Posted: Aug 27, 2006, 12:22 AM CST

ok now i am so totally

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VioladorDeLaLey
Bajo Un Sol Feliz, Delaware USA

Posted: Aug 27, 2006, 12:27 AM CST

My 2 cents...Wikked i think you worth a lot hun,i don't see anything wrong with you and like Ron said i don't think it's you...just do what makes you happy sometimes we worry about making other people happy and we forget about ourselves ,i'm pretty sure there's someone out there who will appreciate you for who you are and never let you go...Wish ya the best you deserve it

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kentuckygirlge

Posted: Aug 27, 2006, 12:30 AM CST

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Why, kentuckygirlge, do you feel this way also?

joe i just love you to pieces at lest you say whhat you feel,not mentioning any names want to hide behinnd distance or some crap,yet u wait,dont you wait that long you got too miuch going on for you,and that personality speaks volumes,say who it is,if they after while flirt everything ,give flowers everyone let u idly sit by,no you say it so good,so say it JOE

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kentuckygirlge

Posted: Aug 27, 2006, 12:32 AM CST

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Why, kentuckygirlge, do you feel this way also?

wouldnt you like to know

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cajunfroggy
Waco, Texas USA

Posted: Aug 27, 2006, 12:33 AM CST

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joe i just love you to pieces at lest you say whhat you feel,not mentioning any names want to hide behinnd distance or some crap,yet u wait,dont you wait that long you got too miuch going on for you,and that personality speaks volumes,say who it is,if they after while flirt everything ,give flowers everyone let u idly sit by,no you say it so good,so say it JOE

OMG i agree here Joe your a sweet sweet man dont wait forever

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mstyeyez

Posted: Aug 27, 2006, 12:34 AM CST

you know, i dont think it would b considered giving up, if they dont feel the same move on... i always believed that lol and 9 times out of ten they always end up on your door step lol... some people just dont know what they want

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kentuckygirlge

Posted: Aug 27, 2006, 12:35 AM CST

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Hey Kathy...long time no see...

hi Wikked,it feels warm and fuzzy in here,might hang here while,well my sisters best friend murdered in west va,thats why u havent seen me,by her boyfriends x

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