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also if your looking for a nice relationship with a guy that tells you sweet things that you enjoy hearing that is single,you should got to a local gathering like a bar,

even know you meet him there I'm willing to bet he's looking to meet you

Hey Nebraska lady, my friend Tinker keeps talking about coming up there, or over there, or down there or whatever to come up and party with you. Back to what you said I don't think I could do the web cam thing either and to show men my body on the internet, don't think that would happen for me either. Thanks for the hopes.

You and tinker get it planned and let me know ok. I would
love to take you around. Linda

I don't think that it is all you. I would hate to say that maybe it is just the women that you are picking. I can chat your ear off (or your eyes out) whatever on here but then I get on the phone with someone it is just more difficult to find something to talk about on the spot.

As for the local gathering bar type place, we don't really have places like that here. Most of our bars are going out and getting drunk kind of places.

Just curious, where did you meet your current woman?

We will have to do that. Thought she would be on tonight but I haven't seen here. Been expecting her to pop up with "Which coach are you talking about" but haven't seen her.

I haven't met her yet but known her form the internet for two years or more and just got more involved over the last 3months.


I think I'm trying to hard to make it work cause I don't like not gettiong what i want i guess

Is she from here? Getting more involved how? Sorry being nosey. I know about the trying hard to make it work. I just gave up on a local guy here that expressed interest and then turned around told me that he really really likes me but only wants to be friends. I tried being friends because he is going through alot of stuff and that is what he said he needed. But being the one that has to call all the time does get old.

o she's not from this service,When i'm really interested in someone as her.she started it up and let me know it was okay to talk about being togeather and love in stuff,so I went form that and did my chat thing ut I don't play with feelings,We have plans to meet

but I think she needs to open up to me and at;east show me she's little more interested then what she's not showing me.


I need this from her or it will be like the relationship is for me and none for her.


If you ask me she's the luckiest girl in the world to have someone that expresses things how I can,and I ask very little form her

You know, I would have to agree with you. Not alot of men express their feelings, or their true feelings - they just talk about stuff but the men I know keep their true feelings to themselves.

One of my problems might be that I always ask what I want to know, if there is something bothering me I am very open about it. I think that is a very important part of relationships.

So ask her and keep asking her until you get the answers that you need. It has been pleanty of time so this isn't new to either of you, so if she is really interested in pursuing this relationship then she needs to give a little.

Thats great I guess I knew the answer I just needed someones elses view on it.

I have talked to her about it and talking to her about it now but she seems busy I like her alot and it feels alot like love

I'm a very honest person and live by that "trut"not matter how bad it can be..and if like to know everything She's going though.It's all we can do to feel like we're meant to be if you know what I mean

thanks for your help






GOd bless You

Single moms and married women are targets for married men who are thinking along this line...

They believe that single moms are so desperate at this point the will compromise and settle....

Married women have as much to lose as them, perhaps more, so they try their luck there...

This is just my opinion of course...

Yes it is quite annoying, pesky married guy circling around a single woman like a vulture. A guy I was talking to the other night, a conversation for about 20 minutes, I saw no ring.

Finally conversation got around to kids, and he started telling me about his son. I asked where he lived and he answered "with me" and I asked who was home with him now and he said "my wife" and then I said, Oh you are married, I didnt' realize.

He actually asked me if that MADE A DIFFERENCE ???? duahhhh yeah

Anyways, he said to me, "IF YOU HAVE AN ITCH I'D BE GLAD TO SCRATCH IT" and I felt like scratching his eyes out. To say men like this are disrespectful is sugar-coating it.

Do they actually believe in their pea-brains that they are doing single women a service? If we have a damn itch, we can find a single guy to scratch it, we don't need some married guy.

I went on to tell him that I want to meet a guy who I can eventually introduce to my kids, someone who I am not ashamed of, someone who can spend quality time with me on important days, and married men CANNOT DO THAT!

So keep your head up and don't even accept compliments from married guys, they are scum, looking around for a piece on the side.

Hey Kimberly...I know how you feel in regards to this thread. You know what I'm talking about. AND I know which coach you're talking about as well, finally got it figured out.

Linda, we will definitely have to figure something out one of these weekends. You seem like you would be a blast to party with.

way to go susie!!!smart woman!!