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what do you do when a guy calls once or twice then dont call anymore

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halfpint
oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 3:38 AM CST
i was just wondering what everyone thoughts are on this subject
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cajunfroggy
Waco USA
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 3:39 AM CST
it depends why he has stoped callin
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korangen
Santa Monica, California USA
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 3:43 AM CST
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i was just wondering what everyone thoughts are on this subject
do you have his number? After a few days...maybe call him and ask.
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Somethingsexy
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 3:49 AM CST
well there is alot of reasons that he may not call you back.

he may have have found that there wasn't the feeling there that he was looking for

or that he's out of town working or found someone closer to him.

Or that he just needed soeone to talk to for awhile or two days.


It happens alot when two people don't get along.

thats part of dating.



thats my take what about you?




God Bless
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PanthersSpirit
middlesex county, Massachusetts USA
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 3:52 AM CST
i would say call him and ask him how he is doing and see if maybe he has been feeling down or something may be wrong...if there is no indication of that, come straight out and ask him what made him lose interest in having contact over the phone.

It is better to find out, then to wonder about it.


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arabella
Somewhere In, Maine USA
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 4:09 AM CST
If he's interested he'll call.
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Illuminate
Kathleen, Georgia USA
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 5:37 AM CST
He be tryin to flip the script of course.conversing
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dayveebee123
malaga, Andalucia Spain
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 6:27 AM CST
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He be tryin to flip the script of course.
dunno confused what does that mean?
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Lillyofthevalley
St John's, Newfoundland Canada
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 6:29 AM CST
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i was just wondering what everyone thoughts are on this subject
NEXT!

Don't waste your time. If he's into you, wild horses wouldn't stop him from calling....
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TheProfessor
Pandoras Box USA
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 6:30 AM CST
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NEXT!

Don't waste your time. If he's into you, wild horses wouldn't stop him from calling....
They would if one crushed his ribcage, probability isn't -likely- but it could happen ;)
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dancingfarmer
Columbia, Connecticut USA
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 6:37 AM CST
Good question. I had a wonderful man on here e-mailing me 3-4 times a day for several days. The feeling was mutual and then nothing. Who knows. I figure that either he found someone else or his wife caught him. If anyone knows John from Branford and he's not married, tell him I'm still waiting....dunno dunno dunno
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Lillyofthevalley
St John's, Newfoundland Canada
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 6:39 AM CST
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They would if one crushed his ribcage, probability isn't -likely- but it could happen ;)
Is that the story you use...rolling on the floor laughing
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Katine76
Moncton Canada
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 6:51 AM CST
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NEXT!

Don't waste your time. If he's into you, wild horses wouldn't stop him from calling....
I agree!

Not sure how you two got along and all but if he really did like you and showed that much of an interest he would be calling again.

Maybe you can call him and act like nothing and see how he reacts. I am sure you can tell then what is going on.
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TheProfessor
Pandoras Box USA
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 6:55 AM CST
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Is that the story you use...
No Lilly, I am usually quite brutally honest in why I don't want to talk to someone anymore, as much as it could leave a mark. There's no point in sugarcoating something like that.
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katjor813
Valrico, Florida USA
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 6:55 AM CST
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i was just wondering what everyone thoughts are on this subject
As others have already said, something may have come up and he couldn't call. HOwever, he may have realized that he was not interested and its an easy way out of a "relationship". I had this happen to me with someone I had gone to high school with. We talked on the phone a few times and emailed and then nothing. I have to admit I took it hard because I thought it was me but it wasn't. If this is your case don't take it hard because another door will open and someone better will be there.

Good luck!
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RainbowSlider
Yellville USA
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 6:58 AM CST
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NEXT!

Don't waste your time. If he's into you, wild horses wouldn't stop him from calling....
I agree with Lilly here. I would give a short time interval and when that time interval is over, Next, as is said. Jealousy is a natural human emotion and one doesn't want to be classified as a cheater, either. But on the otherhand playing the field is a part of dating. I think giving yourself and others the freedom to be self is a wonderful thing. Dating can be a learning experience no matter how old one is. One needs to remember we are all single to proven not single, lol.

Roy
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butterfly62
chatsworth, Georgia USA
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 7:01 AM CST
I find that on the internet, there's alot of men and woman and to some people, hard to decide, so many to choose from, and the grass looks greener on the other side. You, like I, may have not been that important after, and he's found, what he thinks is greener grass. I also have had that problem and I give 1 call back and most of the time "caller I.D.", and he will not pick up the phone, so, the way I look at it, maybe the grass is greener for me!thumbs up
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Lillyofthevalley
St John's, Newfoundland Canada
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 7:04 AM CST
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I agree with Lilly here. I would give a short time interval and when that time interval is over, Next, as is said. Jealousy is a natural human emotion and one doesn't want to be classified as a cheater, either. But on the otherhand playing the field is a part of dating. I think giving yourself and others the freedom to be self is a wonderful thing. Dating can be a learning experience no matter how old one is. One needs to remember we are all single to proven not single, lol.

Roy
That's twice this week you've agreed with me Roy grin
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Illuminate
Kathleen, Georgia USA
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 7:06 AM CST
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what does that mean?
Hahaha...don't worry bout it...it be an American thang.laugh
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naturalist7
boonah, Queensland Australia
Posted: Sep 4, 2006, 7:08 AM CST
i had the same thing,and i think thier either boring guys or thier very impatient,or they couldnt handle the truth and ran.thier time wasters and i dont no why they bother becoming members on those dating sites,time wasters,i have only met 1 genuine guy on net and he is very nice,good luck ladies.wave
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