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Why do all guys assume all I want is to get laid? What signals could I change to be taken more serious? What kind of behavior will make be taken serious?

first and for most understand not all man are the same,it is like saying all woman are the same,when neither one is true


second is change the ways you are looking for someone,you keep finding the same kinds,cause without knowing it that is what you are looking for.


take time to get to know the person,tell them what you are looking for,what you want from a relationship.think about what kind of person you are looking for.


make a list of what you want in that person,than take your time and find that person.love is not something you can rush into,but love is something that takes time to grow.

I always thought it was the male that was the horndog?? Guess I was wrong there. Never heard of someone accusing a woman of only wanting sex. Most see sex as an intimate encounter. As do I under most circumstances. Other times I feel it's just a shared release of stress and the filling of the need to just do it LOL.

Would I want more? Not right now. Relationships are deadly. At least that is my feeling on it at current. May change one day.

Aha! See, I'm not the only one it's happening to. I don't know you but my guess is, you're not giving off any certain type of "signals." You're a female. That's all it takes for some guys, and, for some, it doesn't even have to be that.

I'm having to deal with this "crap" from a guy right now who keeps insisting that he's interested in me, yet the conversation always goes back to how much he "wants me." I've explained to him until I'm blue in the face without actually literally spelling it out to him how, if he's SERIOUS about purusing a RELATIONSHIP with me, he'll act in a RESPECTFUL manner towards me and he says he understands that. Then, in the next breath, talks about how much he wants to have sex with me. He even tried to refer to me today in an IM conversation as his "girlfriend!" We've only met ONCE! Does he REALLY think I'm THAT stupid???

So he says, "Well, what's WRONG with me wanting you?" I says, "NOTHING'S wrong with it! But you are MISSING the big picture here!"

I think a big part of it is because, in this day and age where the "f*** 'em while you got 'em" attitude is so prevalent, amongst both men and women, and women are so much more "loose" these days (and I mean specifically with regard to the language they use and the boldness in which they'll just come right out amongst a group of total strangers and talk about how well they perform this or that sex act)that men truly don't see what they're doing "wrong" when approaching a woman in this way. And some are just scummy ill-bred horndogs who wouldn't know manners if it hit them in the face...nor do they care.

So, the only thing I've found out is that the only way to stop it from happening is to stand your ground and lay out the "rules" that YOU are comfortable with. Previously mentioned horndog says to me yesterday, "Give me some 'lovin'' (his word, not mine) to prove to me you're really interested and then I'll give you what you want."

Now, does this idiot think I just fell off the turnip truck? Anyone KNOWS that in a romantic/dating relationship that sex is going to naturally be a part of it. I mean, it damn well better be, if I have anything to say about it. But, geez...I don't even know this guy. My wild and carefree one-night stand drinking days are long, LONG since over. Maybe there are no gentlemen left who knows or even gives a damn about courtship anymore..but...until or unless I find one, I'll just remain single. Makes no difference to me. Sexually speaking, I can take care of myself, if that's what it has to come to.

change your looks may be that would help

Well Love,
body and soul!
It's about so much more than intercourse.
Those of us(men)who know the real thing will settle for nothing less.

Quit posting stuff about getting laid?

Punch them in the mouth!
They will soon get the message

What are you? The marque De Sade?

LMAO ... no, just think that a fat lip is soooo attractive

It's scary when a guy wants me

But Nipper, dont you think that you are attractive enough that men would find you attractive?

Are you not happy within your own sexuality that you can look at another male and say "he's attractive"

O.K. I'm Hot...

Your pal Ronald thinks so!!!

Over 12 Billion sold!!!!


Love the fries...

but Duncan Ronald really doesnt have a say in the matter now does he

I really wish Ronald showed well.

A cool pic.

Wearing a nun's habit could help ... well at least it will sort out the vanillas from the fruiti tutti

Yeah. I didn't have anything either.