Posted: Nov 21, 2006, 8:40 AM CST
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As Z said not all, another point I find interesting is woman claiming they do nothing to bring on these advances, that without no effort on their part, it just happens all the time. no matter what or where... they have no control is garbage!
I've never encountered a woman who could not get my attention when she wanted to "get serious" or had something important to discuss or say.
It's hard for anyone to rid themselves of the "Party animal" moniker, or the "always just about having good times" description. Sometime you have to set a goal and do not loose focus of it, sometimes you may loose some people in your circle because of your changed attitude, but your freinds... they'll be there. Oh yeah, just saying thats what you want from a man will not be enough. relationships take more effort than just good sex.
but good sex is always a way a great attention getter
What do you mean that women "claim" they do nothing to bring on the advances? Ha! When I used to go out, I was approached by men who made advances to me all the time, and didn't "do" a damn thing to bring them on.
Unless, of course, I was guilty simply by the fact that I just happened to be there. Some people still have the ridiculous antiquated notion that a woman is somehow looking to get laid or hit on if she goes to a bar, particularly if she goes alone. Ever thought that maybe she might just want an ice-cold beer and to play pool or chat with friends, etc?
How anyone can blame the "victim" (for lack of a better word, but you know what I mean) for the actions of another is completely beyond me.
Now, granted, sometimes these advances were most welcome; oftentimes they were not. In those cases that they were not, I had no qualms whatsoever about telling the guy to get the hell out of my face.
