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.......why is it that most men on dating sites want a woman for what she looks like and not for who she is on the inside.......do they think being drop dead gorgeous is gonna make someone treat u any better?

I have met many respectable men online, that talk to me and want to get to know me for who I am inside.

I get physical compliments also, but I have to say, that very, very few times have I met someone that was looking for just good looks...

I acn't really answer your question, I guess the guys would have too, but from a female point of view, I believe that the personality we show is can be a big factor on how a woman gets viewed.


... Angel...

Who you talking to? MEN want looks...women want MEN!!!!!

and nobody wants a freak like you.....

Hmm, from reading your posts on this and a couple other threads I can't figure out why you're divorced lol

You're of course entitled to your opinions, but I doubt anyone appreciates how crass you are.

Caucasian, PLEASE!!! I'm tired of ALL the oral sex.

Another LOSER not gettin' laid!

I'm tryin' to help you guys here but you all insist you know what you're doing.

I guess freak is too kind of a word for you...how about a disgrace to your own kind.

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My observation is that those men who do that think they somehow DESERVE the really good-looking women. And the funny thing is, rarely are they "GQ" material themselves. I think men who want the "hot babes" do so for one reason and one reason only: to make THEMSELVES look good. Of course, it doesn't work, but for some reason it boosts their ego if they have a great-looking woman next to them, as if to say, "hey, everyone, look what *I* can get. Men who are like that are far too shallow and superficial and self-conscience and a complete and total waste of my time.

oops...crxn...self-conscious...my bad.

I just looked at your profile for the first time since I been her, for someone that claims to be happy, you sure act miserable all the time.

Would I want you...sure...I can drop you off to my gay friends, they know what to do with you.

You're just feeding a troll by responding. He's all over the forum flaming anyone he can to get a rise out of them.

Cant resist, unless youre gay friends are blind and deaf they wouldn't be interested in him either lol

You look good in a mullet...

I know what he is like, I see his immature post's all the time..., a few directed at me....lol...I just find it amusing how much he show of his loser self.

correction, how much he can show, what a loser he is.

Lol! I should give you an angry dragon! :LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So I have been reading this post.. and yes I can tell you I want you........... For fighters practice.... I have a feeling that most of your comments come from the lack of your size! The size of your heart and the size of your bits...

Detra princess warrior

Speak for yourself, and don't add me in your blatant grouping of all men, thanks.

As for expectations, I'm biased and lean toward one with intelligence. If she doesn't have intelligence, nothing else will work other than being friends. I want someone I can sit down and discuss things with on many different levels, have her understand, and add her input - input does not consist of 'yeah', 'uh huh', 'umm', 'really?', or 'ok' in my eyes.