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ive had a really bad 2 weeks and thought id share it with you....
last week i found out my dad hasnt long to live. He came home from hospital to basically die (to put it bluntly).He has cancer of the pancreus. My mum is really distaught and i try to keep her chin up. Then i tried to fix my washing machine and broke my toe, when it fell on me!! I lost my mobile phone when i was out and that same night,my ex threatened me in public. Then my car broke down 3 days ago, which is gunna cost a lot of money to fix. Lastly a guy i have been in contact with on here, is now snubbing me. We have talked loads on the phone and on here and all of a suddern he is just ignoring me. I dont no what i have done wrong. Everything was going great.What would you do in my situation. It feels like i have all these bad things happening to me and i really feel like all the fight in me has gone

Its not just you...believe me my week hasnt been much better! Just hang in there...it has to get better someday!

Compared to losing your dad, the rest is trivial. Paws

pray. it works. you and your family will be in my prayers. hope things get better for you.

i really wish i could believe you. Just woundering whats gunna come next.

i no but why does it all come at once?

Know that there are those that will think of you and your family.

Prayers go out if that is ok with you...........

thank you...at least i no i can have a good moan up on here and just get rid of my frustration ... if thats ok with you guys

I am sorry you have had it so rough. I have heard it comes in threes. Your dad's case sounds the worse of it.

i know if might not help,but sometimes when we are going through bad times.we do not understand why,we will ask oursevles why is this happening to me


but if we look around we will see someone has it worst than we do.yes in life bad things will help.but like everything in life bad things will past.soon all of this will be a memory good or bad.how you will look on it is up to you.


but i am sorry for your father,my God be with you and your family at this time.

Been where you are at hun. It is not fun. I think I am starting to come out of it now tho. All I can say is when you have done all you can do to stand, stand and hang tough. Do what I did, post and vent. It helps, plus you get some pretty good feedback from people here. Lastly, I got two broad shoulders to lean on if ya need them and I always have two ears to listen.

Hugs,
Bob

It's not only you hon, it happens to the best of us.....but cherish the little time you have left with your dad. Don't worry about the person that snub you, that happens to others here too, just keep on going, and in the best of times, and in the worses of times we are cheering you on...go girl!

thank you .... that surely bought a tear to my eye. I might have to take you up on that offer

Good or bad, this too shall come to pass. Best of luck

I always look at the bad things like this: I may think I have it bad but there are others who have a life of hell and have it a billion times worse. So when I start to feel sorry for myself I just try to remember that I have it so much easier than others.

We have all been in that "rut" Meiow...but take heart we are all still standing here...it is for a time only and it will pass...

Take this time to prioritize what is really important right now, and deal with it that way...

Here is my thought of the day i'd like to share with you..

God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change...
Courage to change the things i can...
And the wisdom to know the difference...

Hey.....just think.....it could be a lot worse.....you could have broke your foot instead of just your toe!

But keep in your mind that these bad times give you the opportunity to grow the most......Cuase it's not like we do it when things are easy.

And besides......troubles come and then they go...which guessing by your present circumstances......The good times seem like they are just around the bend.

So go ahead and break out the confetti and your party hat!

I could go on...but I will spare you

Hi CatWoman,
Don't worried!!!! Things happened for reasons. Last a guy have been in contact with, dont even bother. That tell you alot, he is not the right for you. there are too many fishes in the ocean. Someone special will come your way!!!!!!

In this situation, I would spend as much time as possible with my Dad, tell him how much you love him and what he has meant to your life.

We knew when my father was going too.. It gave me the time to tell him how important he was was to me and how much I love him. Since he has gone, I have never had to look back and wish I would have told him. Because I did. I miss him everyday, but he knew how much I loved and respected him!!

God Bless you :)

P.S. I just figured out what I would ask Santa for.. Peace and love for meiowcats and her family in this hard time of her life.

This thread was posted in September. I certainly hope your father is on the upswing.

Sometimes life throws us curve balls to see if we become stronger and hit the home run, or crumble and strike out.

My Mom also was diagnosed with cancer lately. It was there that I saw my whole family come together as a unit and "unite". That is where the strength is...