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Ladies,i kind of find it difficult to have sex on the first date with a person i just met and do not know at all...some women didn't like that.so what do you think???

Will you marry me??? or rather both my girlfriend and I? we have been looking for a man with your "difficulty"...jeeze too many guys wanna get in a girls pants before the check comes for dinner... we love you!!!

I do not see that as a difficulty just good morals.

Are you for real? LOL

But seriously though. There is absolutly nothing wrong with how you feel. Just shows you got good morals and respect a woman.

Keep up the good work!

thanks ladies...iwish you were not so far away...sex is much more enjoyable and deep with someone you know!after all sex is all about satisfaction of two not one!!

but this question's for you..What would YOU do??

Wow this is reversing everything!

anyone looking for a serious relationship would be more than happy to get you know you first.

Good luck....

you know this doesn't meen im only for serious rel you know...only that i want to know the other just a little bit first..

Build friendship first if you want a meaningful relationship. If you are only out for "satisfaction" then there is no feelings involved.

What do you mean what would you do?

Well I would definatly take the time to get to know the person and if there is a attraction and chemistry then would go for it.

I agree with you. Sex is much more enjoyable when its with someone you love because then your both comfortable with one another and you can let both your passions take over one another.

well said and done Canada!!!

anything goes..

Thank ya!

the question is :Would You have sex on the first date?

No~~Sorry it's a just a quirk of mine.....

Well, Stratis....
I applaud you for being decent. As for if I was in that situation. After one date I don't sleep with someone. I mean I don't know them, they could very well have a disease, they could be married, they could be COMPLETELY wrong for me ect....

I find that once you have sex with someone one of 2 things happens, either 1- you never hear from them again because either you weren't good enough OR they just wanted to use you for that one purpose or 2- They expect you to marry them and have their babies.

Dating is all about getting to know someone and enjoying the company... If you just want to find something to boink go to the bar... not out on a date.

Rightly put. Ikinda liked the expression boink!!!

Stratis,
Something in you seeks "geniune" interaction rather than the quick fix,the right woman will value this ability in you
Invest in your personal growth as a being till the right woman comes to you.
Blessings Maven.