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depends on the guy and also how much i've had to drink

Sex on the first date -- absolutely not for me. Intimacy comes after knowing someone...who they are, what they are......... It takes a long time to get to know someone and if they are willing to wait they are worth being with. If not, then I deserve better. A roll in the hay is just that. There is more to sex than just the act and the act can wait until the time is right, and the person is the one you want to be with.

If everbody was like there would less people with std.

We should hang out and get drunk cowgirl

And a hell of a lot less unwanted children for those who tend not to "wrap their willy".

just a slight objection here : what you say isn't only a man's responsibility isn't it. Woman still have a say don't they...

I also believe in waiting. The question is if everyone here believes, does everyone always follow through? Since nobody here has sex on the first date who are the people having all the one night stands we all know about existing?

you know robin,when you say that you generally don't do something it doesn't mean that you NEVER did it...this i believe answers your question... Happy to have you with us though..welcome and kalispera!

one night stands are easy, its finding that someone to get to know and fall for thats the hard part so many people have been hurt that they refuse to put themselves out there. So whomever is doing all the damage needs to be tarred and feathered. They are making it vary hard for those of us that are really looking for love and dont want to be alone forever.

I think that if a girl has sex on the frist that means she is easy and dont care about her self,

I think....... I like dark haired, dark skinned Italian men!!!!!!! Why don't you come on over here to Tennessee and lets you and I sit down and have our own little forum and discuss it over a nice bottle of win!.

nope.....I don't boink on the first date.
Not that I haven't wanted to....I just don't.