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the knife in the back yes i have been there had a good freind go be hind my back ,was seeing my boy friend..yup so ive been there all right

<---------BIG TIME and in the meanest and cruelest way possible.



And I was not living in some dream state it surprised our families, close friends and the ones closest were the most surprised.

I remember my oldest daughter coming to me and saying "Dad you guys never argue, never fight you both seem happy. Why is this happening?"

Two years later I have my theories but mostly I have apathy toward it all now.

After being married for 8 1/2 years, and just after our 8th anniversary I might add, my husband calls me at work and says "Just wanted to let you know I've moved out." like, honey I paid the elec bill. Then that afternoon when the landlord came to change the locks I found out that he'd had a girlfriend for a few months. He'd been telling it around a bit I guess because others came forward and said the same thing. Before would have been better. I never saw it coming and am still very suprised. We havn't gone to court yet to finalize the divorce but I can't wait! I'm ready to put this behind me and move on. I'm already used to him being gone and the sad thing is that I haven't even missed him since about the 3rd or 4th day he left. Life moves on and so do I.

This is the attitude I had until he realized what he had lost and broke up with his girlfriend. That is when the calls started with the apologies.

As for the question...

Raises both hands Because I give up.

been there and got the t-shirt

happily...notmarried...but blind-sided...yes...

but did not become the fool

There aren't enough apologies to get him back into this house. I now see he was a waste of time and I'd never go there again.

Had to learn it twice. First one really was blindsided.

I did not let him back in my new apt either, it is just the calls out of the blue that bring back the memories.
When I found out and was able to accept that he was cheating on me, it was still hard for me to understand what "I" did wrong. I am dealing with that as the divorce was just final in March and there are still memories that are edgy. I am not able to trust anyone now and it makes it hard to move forward when you can not trust someone.

if feels pretty good when you can reach back there and pull that thing out.

I absolutely felt that way. Three months after my second daughter was born, I found out she wasn't my second daughter.

i got stabbed in my back last week need hospital treatment

Maybe better to ask how many were not blind-sided!

Friends told me,but I could not believe it,found out the hard way.

Good Topic Paws..


I think I went through most of my marriage to my ex-husband going in cycles of both.

I've been stabbed by an ex gf who cheated on me...and yeah that sucked, but lately I was stabbed by people I thought of as friends, and they are turning out to be witches spit out from hell...they spit on me car and think that its funny...yeah...they'll be laughing when I throw a brick at them too

No.. let's not throw a brick. Throwing a brick puts you at the very same level they are at currently - I feel you're better, and more intelligent than that. Don't you agree?