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look around dude! That's all you see! Abuse. Women don't want the goodguy, they want the guy who plays with their minds and treats them like crap. Guys wants the women who talk dirty and are easy to persuade. True Love? Don't exist is this day and age! Sorry, but you know I"m sorta right?

Look around?
Where?
On dating sites?
Isn't that a skewed perspective?
If I look around in my own neighborhood I see more successful happy marriages than failure - by far - significantly more.
I don't know what the stats are. People claim that the divorce rate is over 50%. But it only takes a few inner cities to skew those results for the whole country. I think rual couples tend to stay together at a lot greater rate than 50%. Probably more like 80%.
Actually I think people who live in rural settings tend to be happier all the way around anyway.
So I suppose it all depends on where you LQQK