is there a such thing as true love anymore?

nanasnookems
caruthersville, Missouri USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 5:09 PM CST

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I thought so at one time. Anymore I don't know, for myself anyway. At this point I'm not sure I even want to look anymore. Maybe one day it will happen, maybe not. I'm not counting on it. Sucks having a defeatist attitude, but thats where I am anymore. Hopefully others here fare better.

oh u shouldnt think like that i know its hard not to but i was the same way.........ive found onevery important thing tho about all of it........i was to the point i was gonna just give up on ever findin someone who could and would love me for me.......at the very time i was thinkin of all this a very gentle caring man came into my life......i had been so alone for so long that i tried to not get attatched to him......we chatted and exchanged emails.....then out of the blue he wanted to cam with me......well, me myself i didnt want to but i thought what the heck....so i did.......i was expecting some perv......but never has he done anything disrespectful to me on his cam,thru emails or on the phone.....we talk every night and if he is not near his puter he calls me.......the little things in life r whats important to me and should be to everyone,b/c in the long run the little things u do for someone or the things they do for u make the most memeories.......anyway,im just tryin to say that when u least expect for love to come into ur life is when it usally does.......we r now makin plans to be together forever........

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longingformyluv
Pittsburgh USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 5:48 PM CST

I have this deep down inside feeling that maybe mine is out there but I just don't know how to go about finding him

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venizelos
balzan, Majjistral Malta

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 6:26 PM CST

Hi,

Well I have been through a lot with men, been hurt and hurt and hurt. but I do believe true love exists.Hard to find I guess.The more you look for it , it wont arrive.For true love to exist the couple have to be strong,and fight temptation,and there has to be commitment from both sides,besides trust and passion.If there arent any of these no love can exist.But I am sure it does.I wont give up on mr right,He is somewhere out there.Although I know who he is,so does he.

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Mike1162
Over the Rainbow, Pennsylvania USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 6:29 PM CST

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I have this deep down inside feeling that maybe mine is out there but I just don't know how to go about finding him

I thought there was once

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VioladorDeLaLey
Bajo Un Sol Feliz USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 6:33 PM CST

I'd like to know how to get it and where to find it

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RenoPat
Valley of the Sun, Arizona USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 8:32 PM CST

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I have this deep down inside feeling that maybe mine is out there but I just don't know how to go about finding him

Stop looking!!

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RenoPat
Valley of the Sun, Arizona USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 8:33 PM CST

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I'd like to know how to get it and where to find it

Same answer, be patient, learn to love yourself, stop looking!!

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danno738

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 8:43 PM CST

i had given up on it ...but now

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TexasTornado
fairfield USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 9:00 PM CST

sure there is.. it just happens at different times for different ppl.. and just because you think you have found your true love doesnt mean you really have.. could be looking you right in the face and your over looking it

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chopper145

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 9:01 PM CST

yes.

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carebear01
Mt. Dora, Florida USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 9:33 PM CST

Yes there is...

This is how it feels to me...
When you truely find that person you will know it
in your heart. He will be like no other person you
have ever met in the past. Both of you will be very
receptive to each others feelings and thoughts. As if
you were one person. You'll yearn and ache just to be
near each other. Will also be able to share all there
is to know with one another without "any fear" of
judgement. The "best" friend you will ever have in
your lifetime.

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danno738

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 9:34 PM CST

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Yes there is...

This is how it feels to me...
When you truely find that person you will know it
in your heart. He will be like no other person you
have ever met in the past. Both of you will be very
receptive to each others feelings and thoughts. As if
you were one person. You'll yearn and ache just to be
near each other. Will also be able to share all there
is to know with one another without "any fear" of
judgement. The "best" friend you will ever have in
your lifetime.

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insatsitra
Palermo Italy

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 11:30 PM CST

May I ask a question, to those who put forward questions that are similar to the name of this thread. There's been quite a few I think.

1. Is there such a thngs as true love anymore?
2. Why do we ask this question in the first place?

I look within and find the answer...to both questions.

The Sicilian

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solocat
belfast, Belfast, Northern Ireland UK

Posted: Dec 9, 2006, 8:42 PM CST

no

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Jan1305
(Moscow region temporarily), Murcia Spain

Posted: Dec 9, 2006, 8:53 PM CST

Of course there is, but only if you stop dwelling on it and cease letting negative thoughts spoil your day to day life.

Love can't be manufactured or planned for, it just happens...often when you least expect it.

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urbanmyth
EDINBURGH, Lothian, Scotland UK

Posted: Dec 9, 2006, 9:00 PM CST

You love her
But she loves him
And he loves somebody else
You just can't win
And so it goes
Till the day you die
This thing they call love
It's gonna make you cry
I've had the blues, the reds and the pinks
One thing for sure

(Love stinks)
Love stinks! yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks! yeah yeah

Two by two and side by side...
Love's gonna find you yes it is!
You just can't hide
You'll hear it call
Your heart will fall
Then love will fly
It's gonna soar
I don't care for any casanova thing
All I can say is...
Love stinks

(Love stinks)
Love stinks! yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks! yeah yeah

I've been through diamonds
I've been through minks
I've been through it all...
Love stinks!

(Love stinks)
Love stinks! yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks! yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks! yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks! yeah yeah

"LOVE STINKS" from the CD "Love Stinks"
by
the mighty
J. Geils Band