Posted: Oct 1, 2006, 10:02 PM CST
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Well, to claim that this is true only gives incentive to stalkers.
When does romantic persistence become harassment?
With the first "no"?
The second "no"?
The third "no"?
Can we put a number on it?
I guess I'm not very romantic. I always quit with the first "no".
I think this is because the last thing I want to be accused of is stalking and/or harassing.
It has ruined me as far as being a persistent romantic pursuer is concerned.
I do accept "no" as an answer far too easily.
So if a woman wants me she better start practicing how to say "yes".
If she says "yes" she'll open the door to a wealth of romance.
good point.
I am all about persistence, but a restraining order is a viable
obstacle.