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We seem to be on a roll for "honesty" here this morning...and calling it as we see it...
So here's my question...How do you like to make love...the long slow passionate kind...or the hard fast lick the sweat of your body kind?
Please don't do a cop out and say you like both...unless that's what you really really like (remember there are people reading your answer here!!)
Do you prefer one over the other?
I see this thread became engorged pretty quickie.
Although 99% it is just idle chatter to avoid the topic.
I definitely prefer the long slow passionate sex. I'm not even interested in a quickie at all. Nor am I interested in diving right into it without the proper foreplay.
Women often claim they like a lot of foreplay, we'll I'm definitely the man for that. If they want the Neanderthal ape-man approach I'm not the man for them. Just not my style at all. Not to imply that I can feel that way on occasion. But it's definitely not going to be the main attraction at this theater.
I prefer "intellectual sex" as opposed to the primordial raping of the flesh. I either need an extremely intelligent partner, or a seriously mentally ill woman. For some reason it seems that only those two extreme cases that fit the bill. Most average women must have watched too many porno flicks or something.

Porno flicks do NOTHING for me at all. Oh wait! Yes they do,…. they turn me off to sex!