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When is it love?

Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:12 AM CST
How long does it take to know you are in love? One week, one month, one year? I think if it only takes a week it is lust not love. Any opinions?
What is love at first sight?
Does it exist?

Is it too early in the day for this?dunno
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moodyblue
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:13 AM CST
love it anytime of the daykiss
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gentlepaws
Any town, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:16 AM CST
It's love after, 8 weeks, 4 hours, 18 minutes and 4 seconds. I know this. Paws
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blancalatina
winston-salem USA
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:18 AM CST
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It's love after, 8 weeks, 4 hours, 18 minutes and 4 seconds. I know this. Paws
Then I'll expect the wedding soon. It's time then.
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moodyblue
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:20 AM CST
now is the time never leave it too late you may miss that golden opportunity
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gentlepaws
Any town, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:24 AM CST
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Then I'll expect the wedding soon. It's time then.
You'll have to speak to Abra first. Paws
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beachfarmer
La Jolla USA
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:27 AM CST
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How long does it take to know you are in love? One week, one month, one year? I think if it only takes a week it is lust not love. Any opinions?
What is love at first sight?
Does it exist?

Is it too early in the day for this?
Never to early for love.

...As quick as (apprx)8hrs...the conversation that starts at dinner, you lose your senses, everything outside the "tunnel" is just white noise, you stop to think "I should get some sleep tonight", as the suns coming up, and the buzz doesn't stop, it just goes and goes,...like a run on sentence.
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soulmateTWS
somewhere, Alabama USA
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:32 AM CST
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How long does it take to know you are in love? One week, one month, one year? I think if it only takes a week it is lust not love. Any opinions?
What is love at first sight?
Does it exist?

Is it too early in the day for this?
Me personally -- I don't believe in "love at first sight"...but I also don't believer there should be a time limit on feelings.....
Just my opinion.....
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Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:32 AM CST
when you can't start the day without her on your mind and her lips on yours, when the beauty of the sky pales to the beauty of her eyes, when your heart beats at her smile, when a glance at each other speaks volumes of desire, when the only music you hear is the rhythm of your hearts, that, I do believe, is when you know it's love
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blancalatina
winston-salem USA
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:32 AM CST
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You'll have to speak to Abra first. Paws
He's not the one I would marry. Is your divorce not final from him? I can fix that.
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blancalatina
winston-salem USA
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:33 AM CST
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Never to early for love.

...As quick as (apprx)8hrs...the conversation that starts at dinner, you lose your senses, everything outside the "tunnel" is just white noise, you stop to think "I should get some sleep tonight", as the suns coming up, and the buzz doesn't stop, it just goes and goes,...like a run on sentence.
Buzzing? Did you forget to turn the alarm clock off?
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AKDOPhd
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:40 AM CST
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Never to early for love.

...As quick as (apprx)8hrs...the conversation that starts at dinner, you lose your senses, everything outside the "tunnel" is just white noise, you stop to think "I should get some sleep tonight", as the suns coming up, and the buzz doesn't stop, it just goes and goes,...like a run on sentence.
the moment it bites you!!


in a myriad of ten thousand ways....

perseverance is a virtue,
Not eating at home brings good fortune
It furthers one , to cross the Great Water


the image,
Heaven within the Mountain

the taming power of the Great....
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beachfarmer
La Jolla USA
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:41 AM CST
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Buzzing? Did you forget to turn the alarm clock off?
Wa wa ...a huh
Oh didn't notice. It took me a bit to find my way out of your eyes.
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Tumpa
ottawa, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:42 AM CST
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the moment it bites you!!


in a myriad of ten thousand ways....

perseverance is a virtue,
Not eating at home brings good fortune
It furthers one , to cross the Great Water


the image,
Heaven within the Mountain

the taming power of the Great....
So does packing my lunch count?
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beachfarmer
La Jolla USA
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:42 AM CST
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the moment it bites you!!


in a myriad of ten thousand ways....

perseverance is a virtue,
Not eating at home brings good fortune
It furthers one , to cross the Great Water


the image,
Heaven within the Mountain

the taming power of the Great....
lost in your everythingkiss
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blancalatina
winston-salem USA
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:44 AM CST
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Wa wa ...a huh
Oh didn't notice. It took me a bit to find my way out of your eyes.
blushing

turn off the alarm honey, get back into the sleeping bag.
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wikked
Ajax, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:45 AM CST
I believe in "love at first sight"...

The depth of that love is another story....kiss
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beachfarmer
La Jolla USA
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:47 AM CST
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turn off the alarm honey, get back into the sleeping bag.
sacked up againlove
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native_grl38
Belleville Canada
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:48 AM CST
When you feel it in your heart...mind...body and soul!!!!!


There is no time limit on love!!!!!!


smitten love smitten
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Meilandra
Eden Prairie, Minnesota USA
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:49 AM CST
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How long does it take to know you are in love? One week, one month, one year? I think if it only takes a week it is lust not love. Any opinions?
What is love at first sight?
Does it exist?

Is it too early in the day for this?
To me, it depends on how you define love, and everyone is going to have their own definition.

But without overanalyzing this *too* much... professor

I believe in soul agreements and believe that we have soulmates and "harmonious" souls, so when we meet them we immediately either fall for them or hate them.

William and I knew the first time we laid eyes on each other that there was a significant connection, and he says he knew right away that he was going to marry me. (we actually started dating some months later, we knew the first week that we would eventually get married, I just had to work through some of my fears about that (and get my divorce finalized laugh ) before I could really move into that head space.)

I've heard other couples say this too, that they knew right away. I wouldn't call that love though, not yet. I had already come to love William over the months of getting to know him spiritually, intellectually and emotionally as a friend, and he felt the same way about me, before we ever started dating. What was left was spending time together to learn about each other day to day, and fortunately there were no big surprises there!

So... no answer. I've fallen in love with people over months, or very quickly.
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