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I Don't Want To Hold Your Hand....

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I Don't Want To Hold Your Hand....




izzyva
Highland Springs, Virginia USA
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 12:43 PM CST
I already have said 500 times i don't have any baggage, but also said looking for somebody with no baggages.




El Diablo
devil
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MichaelH
Nowhere, Indiana USA
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 12:44 PM CST
I don't know how much baggage I have anymore, but I think my life just isn't ready to head in the direction of a relationship right now, although I thought so not too long ago. And, perhaps, I'm not ready for, or ready to find out about, someone elses baggage.
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highplains
Highland Springs, Virginia USA
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 12:45 PM CST
Now, if we were talking about baggies....LMFAO^^^^^That would be a horse of a whole 'nother color.head banger
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Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 1:19 PM CST
baggage? we don't need no stinkin baggage....what? badges? sorry
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jeanc200658
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 1:24 PM CST
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We are all supposedly on a "dating site" because we feel ready to get involved and have a relationship...we are ready to "move on"

As much as people write "no baggage" on their profiles...we all come with some sort of "baggage"...myself personally i like to call that "Life"...not baggage..(it is only baggage if you refuse to let it go..)

With all that being said...why is it you meet SOME people on here..they give you the impression they are "ready"...then hit you with a ton of "issues" they want and expect you to "hold their hand through"...
I don't mind sharing their life, sharing their ups and downs and certainly not "being there for them"..that is all part of a relationship and i understand this...but I am talking about someone wanting another to "fix" their life somehow...I am not sure if i have explained myself clearly here...

If you have nothing to "bring to the relationship table"...why did you sit down?...What were you expecting?...and what did you think you had to offer?
If I didn't know better, I'd have sworn I authored this post. I wonder the exact same thing...

blues
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MichaelH
Nowhere, Indiana USA
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 1:49 PM CST
Nice pics, jean.
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jeanc200658
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 2:35 PM CST
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Nice pics, jean.
thanks michael...
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Randyj
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 2:44 PM CST
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I already have said 500 times i don't have any baggage, but also said looking for somebody with no baggages.




El Diablo
what ever
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Randyj
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 2:47 PM CST
GAWD I'M TIRED
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Illuminate
Kathleen, Georgia USA
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 4:24 PM CST
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We are all supposedly on a "dating site" because we feel ready to get involved and have a relationship...we are ready to "move on"

As much as people write "no baggage" on their profiles...we all come with some sort of "baggage"...myself personally i like to call that "Life"...not baggage..(it is only baggage if you refuse to let it go..)

With all that being said...why is it you meet SOME people on here..they give you the impression they are "ready"...then hit you with a ton of "issues" they want and expect you to "hold their hand through"...
I don't mind sharing their life, sharing their ups and downs and certainly not "being there for them"..that is all part of a relationship and i understand this...but I am talking about someone wanting another to "fix" their life somehow...I am not sure if i have explained myself clearly here...

If you have nothing to "bring to the relationship table"...why did you sit down?...What were you expecting?...and what did you think you had to offer?
Wikked...has it ocurred to you that this is the exact reason these people have so much baggage to begin with.

They are in a continuous cycle of destruction of letting thereselves and others down...until they deal with there own sheet first.

Really is that simple...but peeps make it complicated by blaming everyone and everything else.
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wikked
Ajax, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 6, 2006, 8:39 PM CST
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Even if you won't hold my hand, Urs...can we git nekkid?????
Yes we can get "nekkid" Burt...and no i won't be holding your...ummm...hand!!grin dancing banana
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zdeadmanwalking
bowling green, Kentucky USA
Posted: Oct 7, 2006, 12:15 PM CST
dunno what you mean you don't want to hold my hand,as we walk along the beach under the moon light grin
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Meerkat
somewhere, Northland New Zealand
Posted: Oct 16, 2006, 8:55 PM CST
you're scary
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