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There are times when a little white lie seems ideal to surpass an unconvenient moment with your partner..its the easy solution obviously...but what if these lies reveal???or not??
Do you often use them?

They lead to other problems.

There is no such thing as a little lie. There is only lie or truth.

What you speak will allways come back to you in one form or another.

Even a little white lie can come back to bite you in the ass!

agreed 100%

now Stratis u tell little one or big one leads same effect,same sadness prevails one way the other,

Lies are bad<--------now there's a deep thought

i thought i left you in warm dry place to wait on me

You're right. Next time your partner (female) asks "do these pants make my butt look too big"? Tell them the "truth"...see how far that gets you.

Not saying to lie, but even if you're "truthful" with tact, some people still get upset. I guess it all comes down to your "delivery" of the truth and how they take it.

Lies are wrong, but is "sugar coating" the truth better?

Depends on what you mean by "little white lies"?

I lie to people all the time. They ask me how I am, I say "I'm fine, and how are you?' What a load a manure, I'm NOT fine!!!

Well, I actually decided one time that I was going to start telling people the truth when they ask me how I am. So I starting responding with things like, "I'm miserable, how are you?".

The problem is that people won't leave it at that. Then they want to know what's wrong, and they start prying into your personal affairs that's none of their business.

No. It's MUCH BETTER to lie to the bastards!

I lie all the friggin time and I intend to continue to lie through my teeth until the day I die!!!!

Sometimes people simply don't deserve to know the truth.

I WILL lie to anyone outside of my immediate family. My partner or even a potential partner would be included as part of my immediate family. But anyone else, can expect to be swamped with nothing but LIES!

They simply don't deserve to hear the truth, they can't handle it.

If the woman I love asks me...

I love how could her butt be to big?

Now if she asks me is her butt bigger than some one elses... I will tell her.

Good for you. I liked that answer.

If she's a "smart" women, she won't have to ask if her butt is bigger than so and so's. She'll already know.

I got that covered. I never lie to my woman. If she asks me if she has a big but I say, "No, it looks fine hun,..."

Then under my breath I'll say, ".... compared to an elephant".

So? It's not my fault she didn't hear the whole sentence.

As many have, when I was younger
there were times when I did.

But as we age and become adults
we learn that little white lies
will always come back to hurt
others and ourselves.
It's really not worth it.

In my daily life I choose to be honest...
No one likes to be lied to...

Gotta be real careful with that....

Most women have a mumble radar ... homes in on the sound a magnifies it...

At which point they come back with 'What was that...' knowing exactally what you said just trying to see if you got the balls to say it again.

always remember and never forget

honest without kindness is burtalty

Another deep thought form the mind of Ron the great

I got news for you AB.

I DO have the balls to say it out loud.

I seriously have no problem telling my woman she has a fat butt if I seriously think that she does.

I'm that kind of guy. I'd just say, "Yes, you have a fat butt babe but I love ya anyway".

I mean, she's either going to have to accept reality or break up with me. It's her choice.

I'm not about to walk on eggshells to try to keep a relationship alive. Maybe that's why I'm still single. Although I doubt it. I never really had a woman leave me because she didn't like the way I treated her. I just never fell in love. But if I ever do, you can bet that I'm not going to start walking on eggshells then either.

She loves me and wants to stay with me or she doesn't. If she wants to leave me because I think she has a big butt then she must not have loved me very much to begin with.

A lot of times I post things in the forums just for the sake of humor. I don't mumble things under my breath. At least not anything I wouldn't repeat aloud if asked to do so.

There's far more to love than whether or not I think her butt is big and she would be well aware of that.

Hey! Where's my paperback copy
of Ron the great?

It was a joke anyway...

You got one point here though...

If I start feeling like I have to 'walk on eggshells' then the relationship is over.

Nooo...not saying they would never be "appropriate," but...lying is just wrong. However, I think that keeping an OPINION to yourself is not lying but it being tactful. Or, you can tell the truth, but in a nice way. If the dress looks like absolute HELL on her, for instance, you could say, "Well, it looks okay, but I think you look fabulous in your red dress." or whatever...

Or you can just say 'I want tonight to be special... lets go buy you a new dress'