Am I really that bad

Ocee35 Jackson, Michigan USA

Fri Oct 13, 2006 8:42 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????

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I have met a person from off here, but never really resulted to much. Maybe cos I have kids, maybe cos I am actually very quiet in person, maybe cos I was not as intellectual. But for what ever reason, it did not work out!!

But now I have another person asking me out, but I am not to tell anyone from off CS about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so sorry if my looks dissatisfy anyone - I don't recall saying in my profile, I looked liked a friggin goddess!!

I am sorry if my intellect is not up to standard - I also don't recall saying I was an ancestor of Einstein!!!!!!!!!!

I am just me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So why is it that I should stay 'hush' when someone is interested in me and wants to take me for lunch or dinner????

So............. Can anyone please tell me, please put me wise, what is wrong with me???? Why do I need to keep hush?? Do I really look like Quasimodo or something to be ashamed of???????

Any serious thoughts will be taken on board and given serious consideration!!

Thanks Porsh!!

You seem to be eluding to the idea that he is somehow embarassed to be involved with you. That would be his issue, not yours.

kentuckygirlge

Fri Oct 13, 2006 9:26 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????

Porsh yes i do know what you mean listen to me here it has nothing to do with u,its cause the other party mentioned has quite a big mouth and would start crap about it,check your mail

wildflowerjj

Fri Oct 13, 2006 9:35 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????

Porsha...I would be a bit leary of this man, if he is strictly speaking of keeping it from a certain blonde bomshell. You deserve better than that...obviously. As everyone does. If someone brings down your self esteem, then there's something wrong.
Don't feel it's you...it is not...It's very apparent...it his him
Good luck!

Lionhearted1967 London, Ontario Canada

Fri Oct 13, 2006 9:47 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????

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WOW! I was truly not expecting compliments as I have recieved, I was mainly aasking people to tell me what was wrong with me, to put me wise!! If you know what I mean?? I was told not to tell a certain member in here he had asked me out, kentucky you know whom she is too!!

I don't see anything wrong with how you look, you certainly are not ugly by any means.

I am sorry if I came off harsh to you. I just don't understand why you were thinking it was something about you that is wrong.

I think it sounds awefully suspiscious to ask you not to tell a certain someone, a woman perhaps? He must think you are a fool. That only shows that he has the ability to hide things and be a two timer.

** I still don't understand why you thought it was based on your looks, kids, etc, if it is pretty obvious it is him and he is hiding something..

Good Luck To You!

SouthernYankee Fayetteville, North Carolina USA

Sat Oct 14, 2006 8:22 AM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????

If you look at this with an open mind you will see it clearly. It has nothing to do with you. Why would it be about your looks, kids, or intellect? Your attractive, so what if you have kids, and you can spell (LOL). I think the issue is with the other person for whatever reason. And actually you don't have to keep hush about it unless you choose to! Good Luck with whatever you decide.

swtnsassy14u Ossipee, New Hampshire USA

Sat Oct 14, 2006 9:00 AM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????

In response to:

WOW! I was truly not expecting compliments as I have recieved, I was mainly aasking people to tell me what was wrong with me, to put me wise!! If you know what I mean?? I was told not to tell a certain member in here he had asked me out, kentucky you know whom she is too!!

This person he doesn't want knowing about you two, is she some of kind of whacko....perhaps he's afraid she'll harrass you or something.....or maybe he wants to see how things go first, b4 letting anyone know.

NyAina TOULOUSE France

Sat Oct 14, 2006 9:12 AM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????

In response to:

I have met a person from off here, but never really resulted to much. Maybe cos I have kids, maybe cos I am actually very quiet in person, maybe cos I was not as intellectual. But for what ever reason, it did not work out!!

But now I have another person asking me out, but I am not to tell anyone from off CS about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so sorry if my looks dissatisfy anyone - I don't recall saying in my profile, I looked liked a friggin goddess!!

I am sorry if my intellect is not up to standard - I also don't recall saying I was an ancestor of Einstein!!!!!!!!!!

I am just me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So why is it that I should stay 'hush' when someone is interested in me and wants to take me for lunch or dinner????

So............. Can anyone please tell me, please put me wise, what is wrong with me???? Why do I need to keep hush?? Do I really look like Quasimodo or something to be ashamed of???????

Any serious thoughts will be taken on board and given serious consideration!!

Thanks Porsh!!

I've just read your profile, and honnestly, you are a very nice looking woman. But as you said, it's not just about the way you look.
Sometimes, i asked myself too "why is that there's always something that doesn't make it work"? And lately, i think i've found the answer. I just made wrong choices. Not that those guys i was with were bad, but they were just not made for me. That's why it didn't work. We just dont't match...

SO if it doesn't work sweetheart, it's not always because of you, or him. SOmetimes, 2 nice people just don't match. Yes, i know, it's a shame, when you really care about the other, but that's the way it is. SO next time, before accepting a date, take the time to know him more, and to see whether he's a good match for you. Because it can happen that you fall in love with someone for whom you're not made for. And if you insist on being with him, you will always end up being broken hearted.

Good luck

arabella Near Farmington, Maine USA

Sat Oct 14, 2006 9:58 AM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????

Yeah, he's probably working four or five ladies at once and wants to see which one he can get the most out of

mastic55 Long Island, New York USA

Sat Oct 14, 2006 11:21 AM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????

You look and sound nice,and if your Quasimodo, you could ring my bell any time at all.

pineystein Springfield, Massachusetts USA

Sun Oct 15, 2006 7:26 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????

Dear precious Porsh,
You are a genuinely gorgeous woman.
Rejection usually makes one feel inferior.
It will wear off quickly.
Sincerely, David

biggdave1969 birmingham england UK

Sun Apr 22, 2007 1:58 PM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????

nope you not bad at all really

Samaya Baku Azerbaijan

Tue Jun 5, 2007 4:56 AM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????

Dear porsha :)
I haven't seen your photo, but according to your letter you are very nice person.
You have to be self confident.
Love and respect yourself..
If somebody doesn't accept you as you are then you also don't need this person.

Good luck to you.

Jacko21 St. Pauls Bay, Majjistral Malta

Tue Jun 5, 2007 5:01 AM CST : Am I really that bad???????????????????

I have no idea what you look like, but you certainly have a nice character......should this guy want you to stay quiet about your date there is an alterior motive behind it......ie he's playing the field.......but you've already worked that one out for yourself.....as you are intelligent too lol

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