Posted: Jul 22, 2005, 11:15 AM CST
That is a true thing. But, being treated like an object (or, someone attempting to...) causes a negative reaction. Having it done repeatedly causes blow out, lol.
Okay, so yes, honesty. Saying what you mean and meaning it. don't just tell someone what you think they want to hear because you want something. Give a person a choice. You want casual sex? Then say it up front. Don't play with feelings and tell lies to get something...
You want a relationship, then mean it, and be non-judgemental about the warts that go along with being human, and not what the media force feeds us all.
There are some absolutely wonderful people here:)
That is honest.