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Someone Near Someone Dear......

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Peg42362
Albion, Nebraska USA
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 1:58 AM CST
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Someone near, someone dear:

Just drive away all my fear!!!





~BRANDON~
Cute....Like the shades
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fireliter
Allen Park, Michigan USA
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 6:27 AM CST
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Matters of the heart....Met someone.....moved to fast
and now she has found out things that are not so flattering
and a bit scarey.....she's already given up everything
and moved in with the guy....now she's doubting herself
and with good reason.....S he is discontent and lost and
I'm not sure how to approach the subject without being too
oppionionated.....because I'm so close to the subject.

Need a fresh approach from someone that can look at it from
another perspective.....
its hard for many when they themselves have made a mistake of the heart to openly admit it. regardless of any new info they gain is hard to accept you have been decieved by your own judgement.
I wouild probably address the self -confidence issue with her, reinforce the fact that she is good and capable at many things>I would not directly tell her "you messed up" until she breaches that topic.
another point, be careful before you approach this you know how far you are willing to go to help[ her.
some folks do not lke to share there blunders and boo-boo's with
the community sharing with one or 2 people was hard enuff for their self esteem.
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