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DO YOU EVER TAKE ANY1 BACK

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SKINNYMINX
hull, Humberside, England UK
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 10:47 AM CST
MY EX WANTS TO GET BACK BUT DO U EVER TAKE SUM 1 BACK WHO HAS HURT U AN YOUR CHILDRE SO BAD
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Katine76
Moncton Canada
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 10:55 AM CST
Well depends on what you mean by he hurt you and children really badly? Was it physical? Did it happen often?

Before thinking of yourself think about the children who are involved and their wellfare first and then make that decision based on that.

The best of luck to you!
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Xstacy
va, Virginia USA
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 10:56 AM CST
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MY EX WANTS TO GET BACK BUT DO U EVER TAKE SUM 1 BACK WHO HAS HURT U AN YOUR CHILDRE SO BAD
I think the keyword is "children". Ask yourself...What is best for them? What kind of hurt was it? and What would taking him back show them?
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gentlepaws
Any town, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 10:57 AM CST
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MY EX WANTS TO GET BACK BUT DO U EVER TAKE SUM 1 BACK WHO HAS HURT U AN YOUR CHILDRE SO BAD
Every case is different. It's in your hands. Paws
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Chele1964
Pittsboro, Indiana USA
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 11:05 AM CST
I remember hearing once that an ex is an ex for a reason....when looking back on my past relationships, it holds so true. But everyone is right, it depends on what kind of hurt he caused. I tried to stay with my son's dad for my son's benefit, but it didn't work out. Sometimes the best thing for the children is a split....if you are or will be unhappy, so will your children. It is never wise to stay "just for the kids"....it should be because it makes everyone happy. Just my 2 cents.
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jeanc200658
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 11:19 AM CST
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MY EX WANTS TO GET BACK BUT DO U EVER TAKE SUM 1 BACK WHO HAS HURT U AN YOUR CHILDRE SO BAD
Oh, HELL no.

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SirenLydia
Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 12:12 PM CST
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MY EX WANTS TO GET BACK BUT DO U EVER TAKE SUM 1 BACK WHO HAS HURT U AN YOUR CHILDRE SO BAD
I've gone back and tried, but it still came to an end and I would'nt go back again ever, even though he wanted to.

I think the key thing to remember is that most of us don't change, so what was wrong, will be wrong again.

Good luck, take care.....wave devil
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scouser
london UK
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 12:15 PM CST
no way- dont do it
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FindMe1113
Bronx USA
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 12:18 PM CST
No you don't. For the most part, I beleive his behavior has not and probably will not change.

Don't make the same mistake twice.comfort
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twinkles1994
Kettle Falls, Washington USA
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 12:26 PM CST
Never!
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saguaro
Glendale, Arizona USA
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 12:31 PM CST
Don't make the same mistake with the same person twice. JMOprofessor
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nuala
dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 12:36 PM CST
ny gran always told us "once is a mistake but twice or more is a habit "

So dont get into a habit. wave

Good luck and I wish you lots of courage, as its hard to want what you had, but thats the past so live for you future hug
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Abracadabra
Heaven, Pennsylvania USA
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 2:02 PM CST
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MY EX WANTS TO GET BACK BUT DO U EVER TAKE SUM 1 BACK WHO HAS HURT U AN YOUR CHILDRE SO BAD
Your ex wants?

What do YOU want?

The mere fact that you are asking strangers on the Internet what to do clearly indicates to me that you're not too excited about the idea.
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aman4trulove
Eureka, California USA
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 2:07 PM CST
You know someone once told me there is a reason they became your EX and allowing them to come back is like saying it was ok for them to do it and he might think he can do it again and get away with it. My ex cheated on me and got pregnaunt by my best friend and then she asked me if she could come back and I turned around and walked away.
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fabs_4000
White Rock, British Columbia Canada
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 2:40 PM CST
no
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jholla
Bloomington, Minnesota USA
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 2:41 PM CST
Kids come first!!
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twilightstwin
Detroit Lakes USA
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 2:48 PM CST
I took my son's father back 3 times...I'm a sucker for believing people can change. After hearing the same exact speech 3 times...I learned to " Just Say No!"
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WhiteAsh
Turtle Lake, Wisconsin USA
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 2:48 PM CST
yes, children do come first, but I would never go back to my ex for the kids. If the kids what to see their father, let them go..As for yourself, just tell him to go to hell.
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TabooN
Claremont USA
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 3:19 PM CST
Can't answer this.

Dunno the situation, or you. Given that you come outta nowhere to a singles site to ask people you don't know to help you make a major desission...

can say I took my ex back many time over 20 years, and THAT was a long ride, lol.

Luck to you, and your kids...
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mastic55
Long Island, New York USA
Posted: Oct 24, 2006, 3:20 PM CST
Dump him and send me a plane ticket.rolling on the floor laughing
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