Posted: Aug 17, 2005, 3:09 PM CST
One does not have to have had a loss,or been insecure to enjoy a life of solidarity.
A marrage is something that should be til death do us part,but welcome to the real world,where its about reality,not fantasy.
A marriage can be a simple one,without the expence,bare foot at the beach,toes in the sand,wind in your hair,and the one you are IN love with and someone to read the vows ofcorse.
Like Arabella,Jackie and a few others say,after 3 striks,you can be just as commited living together.
I have never been married,by choice,my 3 sons father and I loved each other,but I was never IN love with him,so when he asked me,I had to decline,I did love him,and we do share 3 children,but deep down I never could see us togther in our latter years still being a couple.
I personally can't see being multiply times,but thats just me,when I look at the picture,I have to see ever detail the picture intales,and its alot to consider.
Alex,I enjoy my own company,and don't need a man to comlpete me,am whole already,so when the time is right,I will be a compliment,not a compromise.
So like you,my life is one I love,and can add to,or take way from,but I always remain,like you,just me,complete,content,loving and a whole being.