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I think my libido ...

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Assets52
Bethlehem, New Hampshire USA
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:20 PM CST
is broken!

I KNOW I'm not ready to pack "it" up yet but I find it more and more difficult to get a thrill ... even a cheap one. Perhaps my libido is just out of practice. D'oh!

Any volunteers, suggestions, or similar experiences?
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TheProfessor
Pandoras Box USA
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:23 PM CST
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is broken!

I KNOW I'm not ready to pack "it" up yet but I find it more and more difficult to get a thrill ... even a cheap one. Perhaps my libido is just out of practice.

Any volunteers, suggestions, or similar experiences?
Suggestion(s):

Variety is the key. Same thing over and over could be part of the lack of the drive as you know what exactly to expect. Grab a cucumber and a bit of ky, start there and mix it up with a clit stimulator or a male partner licking and sucking on your clit while he teases you with the cucumber.

My .02

Rich
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Assets52
Bethlehem, New Hampshire USA
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:27 PM CST
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Suggestion(s):

Variety is the key. Same thing over and over could be part of the lack of the drive as you know what exactly to expect. Grab a cucumber and a bit of ky, start there and mix it up with a clit stimulator or a male partner licking and sucking on your clit while he teases you with the cucumber.

My .02

Rich
Well I know where to get the cucumber - it's the man I am having trouble with.

I am approached but am not "interested" enough to accept the invitation. Once I get to the bedroom, there isn't a problem.

And you are cute even without your hair! wink
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saguaro
Glendale, Arizona USA
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:27 PM CST
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Suggestion(s):

Variety is the key. Same thing over and over could be part of the lack of the drive as you know what exactly to expect. Grab a cucumber and a bit of ky, start there and mix it up with a clit stimulator or a male partner licking and sucking on your clit while he teases you with the cucumber.

My .02

Rich
Lordy perfesser!
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TheProfessor
Pandoras Box USA
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:30 PM CST
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Well I know where to get the cucumber - it's the man I am having trouble with.

I am approached but am not "interested" enough to accept the invitation. Once I get to the bedroom, there isn't a problem.

And you are cute even without your hair!
blushing Thank ya hug
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TheProfessor
Pandoras Box USA
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:30 PM CST
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Lordy perfesser!
That was a small start, I wasn't going to mention kitchen utensils or other until there was any noticeable change whatsoever to start. Troubleshooting something like this is half the fun, you get to practice until you get it 'right'. grin
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TabooN
Claremont USA
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:31 PM CST
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is broken!

I KNOW I'm not ready to pack "it" up yet but I find it more and more difficult to get a thrill ... even a cheap one. Perhaps my libido is just out of practice.

Any volunteers, suggestions, or similar experiences?
I found since menopause, it's more up than not.

But, being tired, or worry...can lessen it, too.

I also feel once we reach a point in life, different things will cause a reaction than before?

For myself...when I hurt bad, or I'm just exhausted...I want nothing more than sleep, lol.

Touchy (easily hurt), clingy folks turn me off, too.
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jeanc200658
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:31 PM CST
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Suggestion(s):

Variety is the key. Same thing over and over could be part of the lack of the drive as you know what exactly to expect. Grab a cucumber and a bit of ky, start there and mix it up with a clit stimulator or a male partner licking and sucking on your clit while he teases you with the cucumber.

My .02

Rich
Hmmm...well, cukes at 4/$1.00 versus a fake vibrating phallus at $30 and upwards...and then, when you're done and have worked up quite an appetite, you can still make a salad!

rolling on the floor laughing barfing
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jeanc200658
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:32 PM CST
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Well I know where to get the cucumber - it's the man I am having trouble with.

I am approached but am not "interested" enough to accept the invitation. Once I get to the bedroom, there isn't a problem.

And you are cute even without your hair!
The answer is simple: don't leave the bedroom!
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jeanc200658
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:34 PM CST
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I found since menopause, it's more up than not.

But, being tired, or worry...can lessen it, too.

I also feel once we reach a point in life, different things will cause a reaction than before?

For myself...when I hurt bad, or I'm just exhausted...I want nothing more than sleep, lol.

Touchy (easily hurt), clingy folks turn me off, too.
That's interesting, isn't it? I always had heard that women lose their libido after menopause..well, I'm not there yet, but I believe, if symptoms are correct, that I'm on my way. But if anything, libido is stronger.

Hell, knowing me, I'd still want to do it if I were in a coma, even.

dunno
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IGOTTHIS
Winston-Salem, North Carolina USA
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:34 PM CST
I just got a whole new mental picture of a salad Wow!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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jeanc200658
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:35 PM CST
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I just got a whole new mental picture of a salad Wow!!
Well, just think of the Salad Shooter!
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TheProfessor
Pandoras Box USA
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:36 PM CST
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I just got a whole new mental picture of a salad Wow!!
Secondary thought.. if she's tight enough to propel the cucumber out of her.. does that make her a salad shooter?
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TheProfessor
Pandoras Box USA
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:36 PM CST
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Well, just think of the Salad Shooter!
Mental wavelength was identical at that time, scary. *makes an aluminum foil deflector beanie*
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jeanc200658
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:36 PM CST
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Secondary thought.. if she's tight enough to propel the cucumber out of her.. does that make her a salad shooter?
ha ha..great minds think alike..wave
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TabooN
Claremont USA
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:37 PM CST
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That's interesting, isn't it? I always had heard that women lose their libido after menopause..well, I'm not there yet, but I believe, if symptoms are correct, that I'm on my way. But if anything, libido is stronger.

Hell, knowing me, I'd still want to do it if I were in a coma, even.

One of the myths women don't know...

When I had my operation I read all I could... And, increased rather than decreased seemed to be the norm.

Fluctuating hormones can do it, too...

Same here, though. When you orgasm in dreams, you knwo you need a good onerolling on the floor laughing
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jeanc200658
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:38 PM CST
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One of the myths women don't know...

When I had my operation I read all I could... And, increased rather than decreased seemed to be the norm.

Fluctuating hormones can do it, too...

Same here, though. When you orgasm in dreams, you knwo you need a good one
" When you orgasm in dreams, you knwo you need a good one."

Or while driving down the interstate...
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IGOTTHIS
Winston-Salem, North Carolina USA
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:38 PM CST
Thanks yall I just spit my rum all over the screenrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Assets52
Bethlehem, New Hampshire USA
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:38 PM CST
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The answer is simple: don't leave the bedroom!
rolling on the floor laughing Cute!!

Well meeting men in a hotel/bar setting doesn't help.

For example: When renting a room I ask "how many people?" And the come on (answer) is "only one unless you would like to join me".
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TheProfessor
Pandoras Box USA
Posted: Nov 18, 2006, 6:39 PM CST
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" When you orgasm in dreams, you knwo you need a good one."

Or while driving down the interstate...
console or stick shift?
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