What do women think of men who go to prostitutes?

kellydenise
cleveland, Ohio USA

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 6:07 PM CST

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I must admit that I am thinking of getting this over with by visiting a pro. It does not seem like people value someone who waits for true love before having sex. I always wanted to wait for the right woman, but in a month I really will be the 40 year old virgin. What do women think of men who go to prostitutes? If I do this will I have to keep it a deep secret?

Yeah, keep it a secret...eewwww.

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40yearoldvirgin
Burlington, Vermont USA

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 6:08 PM CST

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Yeah, keep it a secret...eewwww.

Yes. It looks like that is what men do. Do you believe Kinsey and the 70% number?

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Westdeck
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland Netherlands

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 6:10 PM CST

I lived a long time in the redlightdistrict in Amsterdam. Just hanging out of my window, I saw it all, and was amazed at first, all the faces of the man were the same... They had there own kinda way of moving from window to window... after a while you dont even notice it. Sometime I would recognise an old aquaintence, but they did never remember me!

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kellydenise
cleveland, Ohio USA

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 6:17 PM CST

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Yes. It looks like that is what men do. Do you believe Kinsey and the 70% number?

I don't know what Kensey adn the 70% number is?

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spidermiss2426
Maxton, NC USA

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 6:18 PM CST

When I was living with my now ex boyfriend, I lived in an apartment with him and four other people. One of them frequented hookers on a regular basis. His reasoning was that he was too busy for a relationship, didn't want to have one night stands, and didn't care for "friends with benefits" so he went to hookers. In a way I can see his reasoning.... But I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole, ya know??

But as for you... your hand would probably be more pleasureable than a prostitute.

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IrishLass1
Metairie USA

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 6:19 PM CST

It is not just the prostitute, I don't want them to be with anyone else when they are with me, I am very selfish that way. Being with someone is a learning experience in the first place so I want all of their attention and want to give them all of mine.

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Westdeck
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland Netherlands

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 6:26 PM CST

No man will tell his woman he paid for sex!

I heard all the stories of the girls, wrote them down to, use in my novels! Great stuff

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Westdeck
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland Netherlands

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 6:26 PM CST

No man will tell his woman he paid for sex!

I heard all the stories of the girls, wrote them down to, use in my novels! Great stuff

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nwnstar
Conway USA

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 6:28 PM CST

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No man will tell his woman he paid for sex!
I heard all the stories of the girls, wrote them down to, use in my novels! Great stuff

sure they will.

i dated one man that was completely honest...he admitted he had paid for sex on several occasions. his honesty was so refreshing.

my husband had been given a bj by one as a present from his boss.

while both bothered me, i was more interested in the fact that they were honest with me.

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Westdeck
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland Netherlands

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 6:31 PM CST

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sure they will.

i dated one man that was completely honest...he admitted he had paid for sex on several occasions. his honesty was so refreshing.

my husband had been given a bj by one as a present from his boss.

while both bothered me, i was more interested in the fact that they were honest with me.

Exceptions to the rule?

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Adrean

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 6:32 PM CST

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I must admit that I am thinking of getting this over with by visiting a pro. It does not seem like people value someone who waits for true love before having sex. I always wanted to wait for the right woman, but in a month I really will be the 40 year old virgin. What do women think of men who go to prostitutes? If I do this will I have to keep it a deep secret?

I do not beleive this is true

Sorry

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40yearoldvirgin
Burlington, Vermont USA

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 6:56 PM CST

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When I was living with my now ex boyfriend, I lived in an apartment with him and four other people. One of them frequented hookers on a regular basis. His reasoning was that he was too busy for a relationship, didn't want to have one night stands, and didn't care for "friends with benefits" so he went to hookers. In a way I can see his reasoning.... But I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole, ya know??

But as for you... your hand would probably be more pleasureable than a prostitute.

The 70% number is the pecentage of men that are estimated to have been with a prostitute by the famous Kinsey study.

As for my hand spider, it is OK. But naked women sure look a lot better.

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40yearoldvirgin
Burlington, Vermont USA

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 6:58 PM CST

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sure they will.

i dated one man that was completely honest...he admitted he had paid for sex on several occasions. his honesty was so refreshing.

my husband had been given a bj by one as a present from his boss.

while both bothered me, i was more interested in the fact that they were honest with me.

So would you prefer a guy be honest right off, or would you get upset if you found out about it later on?

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Integraverence

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 7:02 PM CST

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sure they will.

i dated one man that was completely honest...he admitted he had paid for sex on several occasions. his honesty was so refreshing.

my husband had been given a bj by one as a present from his boss.

while both bothered me, i was more interested in the fact that they were honest with me.

Umm..was he your husband at the time?

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40yearoldvirgin
Burlington, Vermont USA

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 7:17 PM CST

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Umm..was he your husband at the time?

Good question.

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Random_Stranger
Made IN, California USA

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 7:21 PM CST

I am not a woman, but I think it is gross. I mean, the idea seems simple and easy. But there are questions of my own. Such as, if you don't like it, can you get your money back? Do you really get what you paid for? And things of that nature.

Then again, in my opinion, sometimes, people you date are like prostitutes. You buy them a few drinks, buy them some chocolates, buy them whatever so long as $$$$ is spent and BAM! You are in like Flint!

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Konigsberg
Jurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 7:24 PM CST

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I am not a woman, but I think it is gross. I mean, the idea seems simple and easy. But there are questions of my own. Such as, if you don't like it, can you get your money back? Do you really get what you paid for? And things of that nature.

Then again, in my opinion, sometimes, people you date are like prostitutes. You buy them a few drinks, buy them some chocolates, buy them whatever so long as $$$$ is spent and BAM! You are in like Flint!

lmao
especially that part ..."Such as, if you don't like it, can you get your money back?"

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nwnstar
Conway USA

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 7:26 PM CST

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Umm..was he your husband at the time?

oh, god no! it was several years before he met me...

westdeck, i'm the exception to many rules. i don't fit well between the lines...

i prefer to know such things, yes. if i found out my significant other had been paying prostitutes...whether before me or after...i think i'd be one pissed bitch. but to know ahead of time...well, that allows me to deal with it before i become completely emotionally involved.

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Random_Stranger
Made IN, California USA

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 7:26 PM CST

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lmao
especially that part ..."Such as, if you don't like it, can you get your money back?"

No seriously though, I was only curious. If someone said they had the best in the land, and I discover there was a hair or experienced "Side Effects", I would so the Prostitute Orangization. Do prostitutes even get benefits? I don't think so. You can't even get retirement out of it. I think if it is legal, they should atleast get taxed.

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bulldog66
doncaster UK

Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 7:27 PM CST

i was talkin to an hooker in the hotel bar tonite and asked how business was ....she replied it couldnt be better if shed another pair of legs shed open in london

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