Posted: Nov 20, 2006, 6:54 PM CST
Where everyone's problems starts is the definition of Relationship. Now this is just my opinion, and opinions are like buttholes everyone has one.. And by me saying this I'm saying it in General.
( majority ) as I feel.
Women feel the need for a " relationship " or "In Love " in order not to fell guilty about having sex with someone they desire to have sex with. ( Key words here someone they DESIRE )
Then on the other hand a Man does not need to feel the need for " relationship " or "In Love " in order to have sex. ( No guilt what so ever ) Now with that said I'm not saying this applies to everyone just the majority.
I fell the majority of men will tell a woman what ever it takes
( I LOVE YOU ) to get to have sex.
If the woman desires him in the first place, its easy for her to take this at face value and get involved. Later to find out she is getting hurt.
Men on the other hand want " SEX" the words . I love you only means he's going to have trouble getting out of this " Relationship " without hurting feelings, when the new wears off and he needs to find the excitement of " new " again.
I base this knowledge on observation, of the sexes through out my life. Seeing the majority of males and females act in this manor.
I'm throwing this out to see where it goes. And I WILL NOT REPLY FURTHER ON THE MATTER !