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what would you do if you were with someone that didnt want to have sex with you ?

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what would you do if you were with someone that didnt want to have sex with you ?

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Tumpa
ottawa, Ontario Canada
Posted: Nov 27, 2006, 1:17 AM CST
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sex is normal in reproducing... not reproducing sex ..is harmful

makes for getting stuck in the baby making stage and not doing the baby raising stage and then PAIN comes to correct this error...learn from history... greece!!
OK, is there any real relevance to climbing poles, to gnawing on power wires, to claiming being the elephant man, to transforming your carbon base to an all together different molecular level, to strutting peacocks who mesmerize and hyptonize or to those greeks who are stuck in baby making stage gibberish that you keep COMETHing up with?

Get a life.
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Abracadabra
Heaven, Pennsylvania USA
Posted: Nov 27, 2006, 1:24 AM CST
"what would you do if you were with someone that didnt want to have sex with you ?"

My first thought would simply be that she isn't sexually attracted to me.

If I were "with" her I'd ask her why she doesn't want to have sex with me.

I have been with women that I didn't want to have sex with, and the reason was quite simply that I wasn't sexually attracted to them. That could be for more than just physical reasons. Perhaps I had already tried to have sex with them and I just don't like the way they have sex.

Everyone is not sexually compatible. Although, based on what women post it does seem that most men are like horny rabbits and will have sex with anything that moves and claims to be female. I'm definitely not among those men. There are actually very few women that excite me sexually. Very few!
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nwnstar
Conway USA
Posted: Nov 27, 2006, 6:51 AM CST
um...if he wanted to before, and this is a long-term relationship, i would ask if anything else has changed. i would wonder if it might be physical...if the love is still present and it seems to be something that can be worked through, then i would give it a shot.

might wonder if he's getting it elsewhere, if other things have changed as well, or if he's emotionally not as connected.

lack of sex can be an indicator of other problems in the relationship.
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Katine76
Moncton Canada
Posted: Nov 27, 2006, 7:17 AM CST
Well I know sex is not everything in a relationship but personaly for me it is important and if there is no sexual contact in the relationship then most likely I would end it.

I would also probably be suspicious if my partner wasn't interested in anything sexual with me. So either there is a good valid reason for why no interest or he would be gone.
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tunzrok
Windsor, Ontario Canada
Posted: Nov 27, 2006, 8:39 AM CST
I would ask her if if she would mind if I kicked her to the curb and found another women to make passionate love to ......rejection is just a word rolling on the floor laughing
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deborah12
wolverhampton UK
Posted: Nov 27, 2006, 10:22 AM CST
i would feel rejected therefore the relationship wouldnt work, therefore id end it
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chopper145
Posted: Nov 27, 2006, 10:33 AM CST
find someone who did.no wait,lets use my dogooder dr phil answer,well i would be understanding,knowing that sex isnt everything ia relationship.....yeh,ok,rolling on the floor laughing i would just leave them.then find someone interested.D'oh!
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chopper145
Posted: Nov 27, 2006, 10:35 AM CST
w/o reading more posts,i knew it,almost could even guess what wold be posted by some of the folks here.
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Abracadabra
Heaven, Pennsylvania USA
Posted: Nov 27, 2006, 11:02 AM CST
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w/o reading more posts,i knew it,almost could even guess what wold be posted by some of the folks here.
Well, that's a good sign right?

It shows dependability and integrity. wink

What would you think of people who post contradicting views with every post?
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deborah12
wolverhampton UK
Posted: Nov 27, 2006, 11:04 AM CST
can i ask how often do people want sex???? for me if im in love with someone 2 or 3 times a day i like it, how about you people?????grin grin grin
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chopper145
Posted: Nov 27, 2006, 11:11 AM CST
good sign that im getting this net thing figured out.some of my girlfriends want to play on this sight...look out!head banger peace conversing
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yolkzonu
Posted: Nov 27, 2006, 11:25 AM CST
Well, I would divorce/break up with him.
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WildOrchid68
Vancouver, British Columbia Canada
Posted: Nov 27, 2006, 11:44 AM CST
I'm sorry ~ I don't understand the question... lolrolling on the floor laughing
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dartagnan
Zabbar, Xlokk Malta
Posted: Nov 27, 2006, 11:57 AM CST
potrei chiamare te?

Can i call you?

rolling eyes
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festis30
Wherever i feel like going:O), Vastra Gotaland Sweden
Posted: Nov 27, 2006, 12:41 PM CST
I wouldn´t go into a relation so i don´t have that problem devil
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kenneee
lowell, Massachusetts USA
Posted: Apr 3, 2007, 6:55 PM CST
help i would say thetre either cheating on you, or u repulse them in some way , impotent , or not interested anymore and just along for the ride . wow!
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rebecca9
Venus, Michigan USA
Posted: Apr 3, 2007, 6:58 PM CST
I would say goodbye.....wave

so long........wine

farewell.........help


there are pills for that you know.....devil
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Posted: Apr 3, 2007, 6:59 PM CST
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Sex is a normal and pleasurable aspect of life.

I would first confront my partner and if that left nothing to resolve, I would seek counsel if you were both were willing.
I thought sex was a human need. Although I would want to know why he didn't want to do it.
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o0shorty0o
near Berlin Germany
Posted: Apr 3, 2007, 7:56 PM CST
leave...D'oh!
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bobby7
Mission Canada
Posted: Apr 3, 2007, 8:09 PM CST
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leave...
If it was a physical problem she had..I'd mastrubate..If it was emotional, I would ask her if WE could get professional help..
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