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well...

for me...

a relationship can't work without sex...

that's why I would probably leave...

I dont want to have sex with myself?? SHENANIGANS i love myself

Cant even imagine...

Maybe it could be an impotence problem or another physical problem that their ashamed to speak about.Men usually have a problem speaking about those things.As long as it wasnt because theyre cheating on me,I wouldnt leave. I guess Im old fashioned that way.You have to deal with the good and the bad in a relationship and be understanding.

With someone like that right now.

Thank goodness too!!! I don't think his wife and kids would understand. I wouldn't be "OK" with it either.

Play Golf.

If the friendship is great why rock the boat.

Ten years from now if you were in the same boat you wouldn't be saying to yourself...

"Bloody hell its thursday. Every bloody Thursday its the same three mins of sex then he rolls over and sleeps".

There are a lot of couples with this complaint. When asked why don't you leave they say "because he is my husband, and friend; and I'm comfortable with him".

They would gladly give up sex for your situation.

still...leave...

Thats the difference shorty of having sex with one person for over ten years and a new affair every month.
(Please only phrasing nothing meant)

You have seen the posts about different types of sex.

Well after a period of time with one person it becomes route. You know where they are going to touch u and how.

And should they suprise you just one bit you relax and enjoy: if not you hope it ends soon and do what you can to get it over and done with.

Its not that old relationships don't have sex; It is that they leave it for when the moment is right for both of them. Knowing that the cuddle and conversation is more fulfilling than the sex.

At least your with someone alot of us cant even say that.

It depends on what you mean by sex.

And what you mean by not wanting to have sex.

If the person isn’t even interested in hugging and kissing you then you’re in a totally platonic relationship.

At this point in my life I wouldn’t mind having a live-in platonic partner.

Although in all honestly I’d like least like to sleep together for the intimacy.

And yes folks it is possible to sleep together without having sex.

Again that depends on what you call 'sex'.

Is kissing and cuddling sex?

you mean such things as this could happen

not talking bout being married for 30 years...

I am talking about how I feel right now...

I am young...

I don't wanna date anybody who doesn't

wanna have sex with me...

Well that would be weird.

I mean, if they don't want to have sex with you then they aren't romantically attracted to you.

So it would be just a platonic friendship at best.

YES...

kissing and cuddling is sex in some way...^^...

also depends on how far you go...

but still...

Yes...

NEXT

well I never met anyone who wouldn't wanna have sex with me...

I always was the one saying 'no thanks...see you later'

I can't imagine a woman not wanting to have sex with me. I mean, assuming that she finds me attractive.

I can imagine that she might be hesitant the very first time not knowing what to expect. But after she’s had sex with me I can't even begin to imagine her not being absolutely thrilled to have sex with me as often as possible.

figured...

Check to see what drugs I'd swallowed.