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No only if he is young

in long term relationships age does matter. it's hard enough to make things work without adding obsticles. I made the mistake of getting involved with someone way younger & it was disatrous! May be wrong to judge on 1 situaation but it turned mne off! But i have to admit the sex was awsome!

Yup

Love is what counts the most. It will fill all the gaps. It would be a shame to miss a true love for the sake of age.

Just as long as they can keep up with me!

That what they makes Geritol fer!

yes age shouldnt matter but what if u are 39 and he is 23 and he treats you like shit and is always putting you down should I keep him or kick him to the curb.

I have a really neat bumper sticker,,,,," Things get better with age..........I'm approaching magnificent " At 54 I really believe it.

naughty naughty

well, age really doesn't matter as long as it doesn't show..hehe...
seriously, it's really what in your heart and mind that matters....age is just a number...

I think its more a maturity issue (for me) than age, I have dated both older and younger, and as long as it is of legal age, go with what works for you.

Age?


Somedays I am older than dirt...and other's, my kids need to parent me.

So I guess I am looking for a young at heart, dirty old man

or perhaps... an old dirty heart of young aspirations....

that depends

wow i was just taking about this today in the Real World


the subject of age came up and i had to laugh as i told Ron what my Son had told me a few months ago while he visiting Montana......

Ben said to me Mom, Dad was 10yrs older then your and Second husband was 10yrs younger then you .... YOU NEED to date MEN your OWN AGE.... he went on the tell me that i was under no circumstances to date any guy that he could possibly gone to school with or know .... My Son will be 29 in March .

I went on to tell Ron that i have never dated or been with a man my own age or close to my own age cuz Man my own age are just not ....well to put it mildly Mature as myself

Dose Age matter, not sure

Relationships are hard enough and when two people have exercised the same cultural, social timeline they are just naturally going to have more in common than if they are years apart.

If the person u r dating is 10 yrs younger then you, when you were becoming an adult at age 20, experiencing culture at the time, they we 10 home watching cartons with a bed time.

I have never got why people never get this.

Does it make a difference? How could it not.

Can it be over come? Sure in some relationship of course it can

But as I said Relationships are hard enough why work them in your favor when u can.

Does LOVE know age? No but you do

I am not fussy about age but I have found the following. Many women my age ae way into being successful and having "the life" and in general take themselves too seriously. Women 3-7 years younger seem to be less serious and are happy to be. I know this does not apply to all and I'm not one to catergorize people, but I know a lot of women of all ages. To sum it up for me I just want to find a good woman weather she's 21 or 40. :)

age doesn't matter, but atleast gives me a heads up on where their philosophy stands. I am reluctant to date women around my age or younger, for fear of them not being sure what they want exactly. I prefer someone who has been through life, or atleast has a good understanding of it. Doesn't sit there and day dream for pefect, without knowing that perfect does not exist.

Perfection is a perspective and what you make of that perspective

Without starting a debate, with that way of thinking, then all things are of concept and nothing is as it is, unless one agrees it is, therefore becoming a truth to them. In which all things are A truth and not The truth unless it became a truth to an individual who did not know this truth. By this, I am saying what "Perfect" means and passing the fact we can all get into a philosophical debate over squares, love, and triangles.