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What would you do if you met a person on CS and you two became friends but all of a sudden he or she found someone and stopped chatting with you? Would you confront them or let it be?

I would send an email asking if I was fired as a friend.

I would just let it go, its a shame they still couldnt be your friend

Well if the person is from the same state, i will ask her why, but with out whimming, or begging, If she's from out of state i will be realistic, and let it be, the chance of her meeting somebody else are 100%.




El Diablo

Let it be - Remember the friendship... Life is too short to stand the chance of turning a cyber friend into cyber enemy.

And besides, sometimes folks have reasons other than what you might believe. Better to let it ride and hope they come around in good time...

done it,dont mind it,no doubt it will happen again.

that happened to me

But the thing i learned that if they stop being friends for no reason then the hell with them you did not need them in the frist place

been there...done that...and let it be...

Let the friend go to find their answers. It hurts but it's the right thing to do.

As much as it drives me crazy....I have to agree with the majority and to let it go. If the person was a real friend, they would not let anything threaten that friendship.

I`d let it be.

It's already happened to me here and if that is where the path of life takes them and it nor longer coincides with mine, then I respect that and let them carry on.

After all, I am still happy with myself.

I was reading a thread a few days ago about whether you would continue to chat, flirt etc after committing to someone. If I remember correctly, the majority of replies said no, it would be somehow 'unfaithful'. There were also responses saying they would be unhappy if their 'potential' partner carried on the CS flirting.

Accept and put yourself in his position. Would you like it if you started a serious relationship and you knew he was still e-mailing other women?

Like the majority, I say let it go.

TRUE I WOULD LET IT GO. BUT AT THE AME TIME I THINK THAT ONCE YOU ARE TAKEN YOU SOULD JUST LET PEOPLE KNOW THAT YOU ARE TAKEN THAT WAY PEOPLE LIKE ME KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON. IT IS JUST NICE TO DO.

I just let it go....

i'd recognize that maybe they don't have as much time as they used to...relationships seem to swallow hours quickly.

i'd tell them i was happy for them, and send them a little flower every now and then.

"woohoo, you landed _____, you go!!!"

If that were the case, I would say you (or me) in this situation is putting all your eggs in one basket. I think generally that if you met someone, there was an interest. With a clear mind, you can crack small jokes to them about ditching you, so they get the hint without showing your full emotion (If you do have feelings for them past friendship) and putting them in for a scare where they never talk to you again. But you have to give some space as well, if you are "Just Friends". Some people long for a relationship and need that feeling. So you spend your time with that new special somebody until it gets old (I don't care, it does). Then at that point, they will want their space, and they are out hanging around friends again... Or ran into a "fork in the road".