why do guys go for looks...

LV426
Canton, Massachusetts USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 7:38 AM CST

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U DONT KNOW ME....IM A SINGLE MUM WITH LITTLE MONEY U WANT TO PAY FOR MY NEW GLASSESS...TELL ME WHEN I got time to go to a hairdresser....i have 4 kids with no help from family.... that guy is a pig....hes not nice person..AND THIS IS WAT I MEAN... i havent done wrong to any one in this room... get a life....

and to the best of what I can see, no one has really done anything in this room to you iether....

When you start a topic like this, expect someone to give an opinion and try to HELP.

If you cant take that, you have a few choices....

1) grow thicker skin.
2) avoid (or dont start) topics about looks in any means.

Sorry, but calm down, breath, and realize that WASNT advice given to you to be mean.

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Konigsberg
Jurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 7:53 AM CST

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and to the best of what I can see, no one has really done anything in this room to you iether....

When you start a topic like this, expect someone to give an opinion and try to HELP.

If you cant take that, you have a few choices....

1) grow thicker skin.
2) avoid (or dont start) topics about looks in any means.

Sorry, but calm down, breath, and realize that WASNT advice given to you to be mean.

Thanks

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chopper145

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 7:58 AM CST

blind guys see the inner beauty,the rest of us got this visual stimulation to deal with,darned sight always f'n it up.

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Hal1949
Carbondale, Pennsylvania USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 2:40 PM CST

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it annoys me that we all dont look like models or were not that gorgues .but its what its in the inside that counts... times are changing noone goes for personality any more...if your not good looking or working your not worth knowing...my mum always said its on the inside what counts not the outside...

Hey Hey, common lets be fair, there are just as many women do the same thing. You can see it in their profiles what they are looking for in a man.

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RenoPat
Valley of the Sun, Arizona USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 2:48 PM CST

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it annoys me that we all dont look like models or were not that gorgues .but its what its in the inside that counts... times are changing noone goes for personality any more...if your not good looking or working your not worth knowing...my mum always said its on the inside what counts not the outside...

HHHMMMM!!! We could rephrase the question and ask, why do women go for money (they phrase it "security").. Naturally, "all" women do not go for the money, the ones that are secure in their own right do not.

Not all men go after the super model look. I personally like to see what is inside. I have been chatting with one on here that I have no clue as to the exterior look, but the inside is very beautiful for sure. I hope I meet more like her to chat with..

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arabella
Somewhere In, Maine USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 2:56 PM CST

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But, if you want to better your chances for a male counterpart, try replacing those windshields for glasses.

What glasses?

For that matter what picture???

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RenoPat
Valley of the Sun, Arizona USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 2:58 PM CST

My my, there are times that the tempers do flair...

"There is a principle which is a bar against all information, which is proof against all arguments and which cannot fail to keep a man in everlasting ignorance--that principle is contempt prior to investigation."

Herbert Spencer

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Konigsberg
Jurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 3:11 PM CST

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What glasses?

For that matter what picture???

Joanie ... you missed it

there was a picture ... yesterday

I hope that woman will get a new pair, afterall

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VARIUS22
NEW PALTZ, New York USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 3:21 PM CST

So we all spend the rest of our lives in a perpetual search for the bigger, better, deal(the BBD) only to find ourselves settling for ugliness with security, a.k.a. someone to raise and nurture our immortality(i.e. children)....offspring who, in turn for the neglect of spousal respect/love, get super neglected and abused. That's the cycle and the pecimistic look at it. The optimistic way to look at it is???........

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sweetcherry
south, Xlokk Malta

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 3:35 PM CST

i'm just going to repeat what has often already been said in this thread.. it's not only the men who go for looks.

i dont think anyone would go for someone to whom they dont feel attracted to. having said so, i think it then depends what type of looks a person would go for. it's the images of what attracts you that u have conjured for urself over time, it is ur individual 'menu of attraction'.

think it could also have something to do with a person's whole energy, and not just the looks.

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arabella
Somewhere In, Maine USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 5:11 PM CST

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My my, there are times that the tempers do flair...

"There is a principle which is a bar against all information, which is proof against all arguments and which cannot fail to keep a man in everlasting ignorance--that principle is contempt prior to investigation."

Herbert Spencer

"contempt prior to investigation"

Now there's a man who had a way with words!!!

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nanasnookems
caruthersville, Missouri USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 5:19 PM CST

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...its guys like u that puts me off....i was having fun on here but now ive i dont know....go 2 hell betrayed...ive done nothing 2 you....

listen girl dont let this jerk bring u down to his level....u go on and habve fun and just bounce him off..........ull be ok we r all friends here and the likes of mhim will soon be 4gotten........

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twilightstwin
Detroit Lakes USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 5:20 PM CST

Some of the best books I've read, and had trouble putting down...didn't come with flashy covers.

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dessertRose2006w
melbourne, Victoria Australia

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 5:29 PM CST

get a life u cow....so bloody what most of us have 2 wearspecks...its not our fault...its life....look at your self b4 u judge people...

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arabella
Somewhere In, Maine USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 5:39 PM CST

Now which cow were you talking to....

In the thread reply box, it says "Quote post". If you want to reply to a specific person, select yes when replying to their post.

That way we know who you are insulting

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Konigsberg
Jurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 5:41 PM CST

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get a life u cow....so bloody what most of us have 2 wearspecks...its not our fault...its life....look at your self b4 u judge people...

Are you always likes this ...I mean you act with a particular temper.

people just try to give you an advise ...you were asking for.

That's all Rose, right. life is good after all

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br6869
kennesaw, Georgia USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 5:53 PM CST

Is it all guys or just the guys your interested in? Everyone needs to have some physical attraction when it comes to hooking up. Could you meet and hook up with someone who had third degree burns all over?

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dessertRose2006w
melbourne, Victoria Australia

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 5:58 PM CST

i deleted my photo its not good enough....

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RenoPat
Valley of the Sun, Arizona USA

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 8:41 PM CST

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get a life u cow....so bloody what most of us have 2 wearspecks...its not our fault...its life....look at your self b4 u judge people...

Why are you so angry?? Life is life, people are people. Seek only approval of yourself, do not seek the approval of another human being. When we seek the approval of others, their are some that are bound to let us down.

Your mission dessertrose, should you choose to accept it, every day, look into the mirror and say to that beautiful human looking back at you, "I love you"..

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friend4you72
melbourne, Victoria Australia

Posted: Dec 6, 2006, 8:58 PM CST

listen up look try not to get aggressive people in here just give you advise they not being mean so just listen to the opinions and say what you need to respond back but dont be angry its not worth it as i say live life and be happy

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