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Hey calm down, dont take it to heart...all u got to do is just be happy with who you are. No one else can be happy wit you unless your happy with yourself.

personally...i go for the persons heart...but there has to be a physical attraction also

i wasnt asking for advice....just a topic...to see what every1else seys is all...

I know but you got mad and started goin off on ppl, which you know i understand happens but hey let it go. Its not the end of the world

why u making me a big joke..u always like that towards people...your pic is not that good either...

look if u went through what ive been through in my life,with people putting u down youll be sensitve too...thatguy. shouldnt have said what he did..it hurts people feelings....

Im not, i was just trying to help

ahhh i agree... I mean im not saying im ugly.. i am happy with myself... buT... a lot of guys dont want a per say... "thick girl"...

I agree cajunfroggy....

One of the first reactions we have is visual, and if it is pleasing to you, then you go from there.

We all have different tastes, likes, and desires, so what may be good looking to one man, has no reaction from another.

Sometimes we invest too much of our own emotions in another, believing in yourself is the most attractive quality any man or woman can have. Confidence is attractive.

Jess x

That might have been true when I was young and foolish but now that I'm older and somewhat wiser , it's what's on the inside that counts.

I like taking chances with those who have no pics in their profiles. Doing this I have met a woman from here who is beautiful inside and out

sorry...to that lady con something...from canada...shess not being very nice......

Yes...there has to be physical attraction too as well as sexual compatibility for a man woman relationship.

I am selfish. I want a pretty woman to be with and I am not ashamed of it. I don't discount any woman but I can guarantee that if I had a blind pick between two women that have a lot of characteristics in common and I like them both fairly equally, when the mask comes off, I am going for the one that looks better to me. I know that that is an unlikely event but it is no less valid than trying to compare two complex people anyway. We just have preferences. It isn't intentionally hurtful but it is honest (even if it is hormonal).

cardsfan what do u mean by..im not?...im not mad at u silly and thank you...

girl girl girl Slow down. It is all good. Something I have learned on here is not to take most people to heart.

listen I have 3 kids and i go to school full time. I know what it is not to even be able to do my hair. I least you brushed it. If they can not see you for who you are then fuck them. You are a cool person. here have one on me

lol i thought you were...but im glad your not

Hi everyone are we having fun yet? lol

that is so true. I know what i want.I hope that their is a man who can be my man

now do not feel like that. I saw it and so did a male friend of mine. He liked you

now do not feel like that. I saw it and so did a male friend of mine. He liked you