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Jul 18, 2016 8:57 AM CST I never thought I would have a problem
me2kool
me2koolme2koolpretoria, Gauteng South Africa5 Threads 18 Posts
Trying to make new friends is more difficult than I thought,and I have been on the site for a year,was out of SA for a while made plenty friends,came back am battling to make friends,I dont know why.
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Jul 18, 2016 8:59 AM CST I never thought I would have a problem
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
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Jul 18, 2016 9:05 AM CST I never thought I would have a problem
me2kool: Trying to make new friends is more difficult than I thought,and I have been on the site for a year,was out of SA for a while made plenty friends,came back am battling to make friends,I dont know why.
Stick around in the forums and blogs, you'll make plenty of friends.

Just don't try to make friends, let it come naturally. You'll get the better quality friendships that way.
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Jul 18, 2016 9:08 AM CST I never thought I would have a problem
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
me2kool: Trying to make new friends is more difficult than I thought,and I have been on the site for a year,was out of SA for a while made plenty friends,came back am battling to make friends,I dont know why.


Try participating in the forum threads... We lean more towards the crazier side of the scale but we mean well & you will make some good friends along the way, as well as a few odd balls.happy birthday confused laugh
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Jul 18, 2016 9:47 AM CST I never thought I would have a problem
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Try participating in the forum threads... We lean more towards the crazier side of the scale but we mean well & you will make some good friends along the way, as well as a few odd balls.


And to further my point about oddballs , they have absolutely no SOH & use the banning button if they don't like a response to their post.sad flower
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Jul 18, 2016 9:53 AM CST I never thought I would have a problem
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
me2kool: Trying to make new friends is more difficult than I thought,and I have been on the site for a year,was out of SA for a while made plenty friends,came back am battling to make friends,I dont know why.
yep yep yep I understand you completely. I find the older I get and the more of lifes experiences I acquire the more difficult it is to make friends. Tactile friends. I think I am less likely to play peoples games or to care what they think. Wish you the best. I have a few good close friends of quality. I also have learned it is not quantity but quality I seek. wave Just wanted you to know you are not alone on this.grin
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Jul 18, 2016 10:02 AM CST I never thought I would have a problem
allthegoodnamest: And to further my point about oddballs , they have absolutely no SOH & use the banning button if they don't like a response to their post.
You got farther than I did before getting banned.
I only made one post. rolling on the floor laughing

He's burning himself and rightly so. laugh
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Jul 18, 2016 11:50 AM CST I never thought I would have a problem
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
YouMeUs: You got farther than I did before getting banned.
I only made one post.

He's burning himself and rightly so.


Yeh.. I kinda had him on the ropes before he finally pressed the panic button.laugh

Never mind, I wish him luck & as they say, " there's someone for everyone" out there.cheers
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Jul 18, 2016 12:06 PM CST I never thought I would have a problem
me2kool: Trying to make new friends is more difficult than I thought,and I have been on the site for a year,was out of SA for a while made plenty friends,came back am battling to make friends,I dont know why.


Sorry to hear that.

If it's online you want to make friends, join in the forums, some good ppl here.

Are there groups you can join locally ? When I moved here 6 years ago I joined some walking groups, sports clubs etc and local volunteering. It helps to meet people with a shared interest.

bouquet
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Jul 18, 2016 6:11 PM CST I never thought I would have a problem
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
YouMeUs: Stick around in the forums and blogs, you'll make plenty of friends.

Just don't try to make friends, let it come naturally. You'll get the better quality friendships that way.
Your one of the most wise balanced person sharing sound good advice. thumbs up cheers
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Jul 18, 2016 6:23 PM CST I never thought I would have a problem
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Try participating in the forum threads... We lean more towards the crazier side of the scale but we mean well & you will make some good friends along the way, as well as a few odd balls.
The crazier - the better quality of laugh wink plus it makes you feel smarter and less lonely in experiencing more crazier than yourself. wink rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 18, 2016 6:27 PM CST I never thought I would have a problem
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
the people who sit around and do research,
eg like how much a bee craps in a day, the useful things we all want to know
well they did a study and came up with this,
men after a certain age 35-40 and older are less likely to make new friends
then women, men don't want new men friends just new women friends,
I think there is truth in that,
do bees crap ????
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Jul 18, 2016 6:39 PM CST I never thought I would have a problem
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
123whisper: ok thanks Teacher. and your 'verk' needs a little work. I will try to remember it...
teddybear
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Jul 18, 2016 8:29 PM CST I never thought I would have a problem
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,701 Posts
arapaho: the people who sit around and do research,
eg like how much a bee craps in a day, the useful things we all want to know
well they did a study and came up with this,
men after a certain age 35-40 and older are less likely to make new friends
then women, men don't want new men friends just new women friends,
I think there is truth in that,
do bees crap ????


Bee crap is honey.. grin
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Jul 18, 2016 11:17 PM CST I never thought I would have a problem
123whisper: Your one of the most wise balanced person sharing sound good advice.
Thank you Whisper, that was kind of you to say! hug
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Jul 19, 2016 6:40 AM CST I never thought I would have a problem
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
YouMeUs: Thank you Whisper, that was kind of you to say!
You're welcome, I really mean it...you're humble and lovely person with much tact.wine teddybear
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Jul 19, 2016 7:07 AM CST I never thought I would have a problem
daears
daearsdaearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand23 Threads 1,542 Posts
Happygolucky4u: yep yep yep I understand you completely. I find the older I get and the more of lifes experiences I acquire the more difficult it is to make friends. Tactile friends. I think I am less likely to play peoples games or to care what they think. Wish you the best. I have a few good close friends of quality. I also have learned it is not quantity but quality I seek. Just wanted you to know you are not alone on this.
totally not alone.
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