Well, isn't that emotional connect of love all that actually matters? Yes, love surges and ebbs as we go through life, but it can hardly be seconded. Wealth, position, and other compatibilities would mean nothing if you do not have love between yourselves.
It may be the substance that fills novels and magazines. It may generate fortunes on speculation about it. Yet...
I can define loyalty, and care and lust and everything tied tenuously to it. Yet... I cannot define love.
So the question is: does love matter when choosing a soulmate?
. Not sure l have 'loved' anyone ever. There have been many very deep 'infatuations' over the years, my idea of 'love' would be that it is not someone that you want to be 'with' but someone that you do not to be 'without'.
Not having read the whole thread l have not seen if religion is here yet but to be on the safe side l have bought the subject up.
LiveLaughLove_NZ: I believe that love matters when your soulmate appears. At least that's how I feel.......and I hope we have more than one soulmate per lifetime.
. All the 'words' surrounding any relationship are just that, what counts is our 'feelings' to our chosen partner.
123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia2,116 posts
yubba: . Not sure l have 'loved' anyone ever. There have been many very deep 'infatuations' over the years, my idea of 'love' would be that it is not someone that you want to be 'with' but someone that you do not to be 'without'.
Not having read the whole thread l have not seen if religion is here yet but to be on the safe side l have bought the subject up.
123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia2,116 posts
Search4Some1: Well, isn't that emotional connect of love all that actually matters? Yes, love surges and ebbs as we go through life, but it can hardly be seconded. Wealth, position, and other compatibilities would mean nothing if you do not have love between yourselves.
YouMeUs: Failure is when one sees faults and doesn't look beyond them. Success is when one looks beyond the faults and discovers the hidden treasures.
I believe all it could take is to spend some time writing to the one you fancy, if she is receptive of you then you just may happen to find her true feelings.
We shouldn't look at the forums as a way of ascertaining our beliefs about others, as it is but a stage for the world to see. It's what goes on backstage (personal mails and such) is where the truth is mostly revealed. It's all about taking chances.
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