What do women really want? ( Archived) (210)

Jul 29, 2016 11:19 AM CST What do women really want?
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
Met a girl online who said that she just wanted to be loved. we chatted by phone for a short time before she requested a visit to my home. I agreed but after she got there, I can't explain why I wasn't finding the connection with her. I didn't force the issue. she did all I expected but the attachment wasn't found in my gut. so I didn't pretend to love her. I treated her like a regular person on the outside. after she left, I thought it best to have some one who loves me more than I love them so I invited her back. This time I was extremely gentle with her. I showered her with affection until she stopped me in an upset tone and said, "why are you doing this?" "doing what?" I asked. and she replied. "You're being nice and sensitive and I am not used to you like that. I want the old you back!" I was stunned. well since she left I have made several attempts to have her come back but I am still waiting
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Jul 29, 2016 11:40 AM CST What do women really want?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
If we knew what they wanted it would take all the fun and mystery away grin
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Jul 29, 2016 11:47 AM CST What do women really want?
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
rebel2: If we knew what they wanted it would take all the fun and mystery away
WOULDN'T IT TAKE AWAY THEIR COMPLAINTS TOO AND MAKE US HAVE MORE PEACE?
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Jul 29, 2016 11:47 AM CST What do women really want?
diova: Wise man
*not called agony aunt for nothing *


Amongst other not so nice things laugh

wine
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Jul 29, 2016 11:49 AM CST What do women really want?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
Hell knows,
that's why I am not looking...
First I have no idea what to look for and second I save all the potential victims... laugh
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Jul 29, 2016 11:51 AM CST What do women really want?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,223 Posts
You want to know what women want yet you throw insults about them in a disparaging way throughout most of the thread I attached.

wow


Post #47
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Jul 29, 2016 11:54 AM CST What do women really want?
Len05
Len05Len05Antwerp, Antwerpen Belgium33 Threads 11 Polls 972 Posts
I consider you an selfish a**hole.
" I thought it best to have some one who loves me more than I love them so I invited her back. "
Did you offer her that option.
"hey babe, i don't love you, but we can make it as long as you care? It sure is easier and better for me."

Even showering her with affection because you want something in return.
it is good that made her uncomfortable.
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Jul 29, 2016 11:55 AM CST What do women really want?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Women always want the unattainable.. Once they get it, they usually disregard it..
Or is that men who do that.confused laugh
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Jul 29, 2016 12:00 PM CST What do women really want?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
Len05: I consider you an selfish a**hole.
" I thought it best to have some one who loves me more than I love them so I invited her back. "
Did you offer her that option.
"hey babe, i don't love you, but we can make it as long as you care? It sure is easier and better for me."

Even showering her with affection because you want something in return.
it is good that made her uncomfortable.







You will be surprised how many men actually follow this idiotic statement...
uh oh
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Jul 29, 2016 12:00 PM CST What do women really want?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Sampe1967: Met a girl online who said that she just wanted to be loved. we chatted by phone for a short time before she requested a visit to my home. I agreed but after she got there, I can't explain why I wasn't finding the connection with her. I didn't force the issue. she did all I expected but the attachment wasn't found in my gut. so I didn't pretend to love her. I treated her like a regular person on the outside. after she left, I thought it best to have some one who loves me more than I love them so I invited her back. This time I was extremely gentle with her. I showered her with affection until she stopped me in an upset tone and said, "why are you doing this?" "doing what?" I asked. and she replied. "You're being nice and sensitive and I am not used to you like that. I want the old you back!" I was stunned. well since she left I have made several attempts to have her come back but I am still waiting


Let me see now if I am reading this correctly.

The first time you met, you were being honest in showing you had no interest whatsoever in her.

Then you had a change of mind (although you still had no interest) and invited her back for whatever reason, and feigned interest in a sickly sweet overpowering way.

And you wonder how she saw through it?
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Jul 29, 2016 12:00 PM CST What do women really want?
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
secretagent09: You want to know what women want yet you throw insults about them in a disparaging way throughout most of the thread I attached.

Post #47
have you seen a psychiatrist lately? just asking because I cannot recall any insult to women in my threads, surroundings nor any other way, place or state. I was not brought up that way. I have no idea who you are neither do I wish to know. I am here for conversations but if you have a beef with someone, don't take that to me because I will not engage you in such lewd behaviors.
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Jul 29, 2016 12:03 PM CST What do women really want?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
Sampe1967: WOULDN'T IT TAKE AWAY THEIR COMPLAINTS TOO AND MAKE US HAVE MORE PEACE?
Is there any particular reason you are "shouting" in your reply to me?
As far as there "complaints" are concerned, they may be justified. We, men, cannot have it all our own way.
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Jul 29, 2016 12:05 PM CST What do women really want?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,223 Posts
Sampe1967: have you seen a psychiatrist lately? just asking because I cannot recall any insult to women in my threads, surroundings nor any other way, place or state. I was not brought up that way. I have no idea who you are neither do I wish to know. I am here for conversations but if you have a beef with someone, don't take that to me because I will not engage you in such lewd behaviors.



That's right, you don't know me. If you did you would know that I never write anything that I can't back up.

The following is from post 47 in the thread I attached where you were responding to Purr4formance:


"thanks for the advice pal. I have noted the hypocrisy in them having enough mouth to hold four rows of teeth and heads as hollow as footballs but also am aware that not everyone think like they do. If they think."
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Jul 29, 2016 12:05 PM CST What do women really want?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Women always want the unattainable.. Once they get it, they usually disregard it..
Or is that men who do that.
There's big difference between boy behaviour and grown up man or women...and maturity of age is no guarantee for mental and emotional growth ...and how much one is damaged to be able for giving and receiving love that nourishes both...instead of hurting...wine
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Jul 29, 2016 12:08 PM CST What do women really want?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
rebel2: Is there any particular reason you are "shouting" in your reply to me?
As far as there "complaints" are concerned, they may be justified. We, men, cannot have it all our own way.
Wise men.wine
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Jul 29, 2016 12:12 PM CST What do women really want?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
123whisper: There's big difference between boy behaviour and grown up man or women...and maturity of age is no guarantee for mental and emotional growth ...and how much one is damaged to be able for giving and receiving love that nourishes both...instead of hurting...


Not true..
Age has not baring on the kind of relationship one prefers.
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Jul 29, 2016 12:14 PM CST What do women really want?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,223 Posts
Oh dear, Sampe must not have liked my response #16.


He went bye bye sad
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Jul 29, 2016 12:14 PM CST What do women really want?
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
rebel2: Is there any particular reason you are "shouting" in your reply to me?
As far as there "complaints" are concerned, they may be justified. We, men, cannot have it all our own way.
sorry pal. I didn't realize I had done that.
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Jul 29, 2016 12:16 PM CST What do women really want?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
Sampe1967: sorry pal. I didn't realize I had done that.
No problem beer
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Jul 29, 2016 12:17 PM CST What do women really want?
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
secretagent09: That's right, you don't know me. If you did you would know that I never write anything that I can't back up.

The following is from post 47 in the thread I attached where you were responding to Purr4formance:"thanks for the advice pal. I have noted the hypocrisy in them having enough mouth to hold four rows of teeth and heads as hollow as footballs but also am aware that not everyone think like they do. If they think."
Did you borrow your brain? That was referring to the hypocrits who were writing negative things in the thread, not women.
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