Answer their question for email. (16)
Where to begin dude ... and I'll try and make this as compassionate as possible, remembering always that even 'good english' can be ambiguous at times OK !
1) If you can write all that i.e. all of the original thread post ... you can write an e-mail, it's not beyond you.
One of the attractions of the site, not to mention one of the obvious 'protections' is the degree of privacy offered by having mails sent 'here' rather than to private, personal everyday email addresses etc. If a person is 'not entirely a good person' then they can simply be blocked here - whereas if they have been trusted with 'off site' details then maybe they turn into a stalker.
Also, scammers DO operate on web sites and CS Admin are pretty good at ferreting them out. BUT once the conversation goes off site that 'protection' is lost ... so many (esp women) will insist on using CS and not give personal details till they feel 'sure' about the person who contacted them.
2) It's pretty much essential that any man who makes contact with a woman can communicate 'at her level' and in her own language. Forgive me if I;m wrong but I don;t think deafness gets in the way of understanding the use of language ... sentence structure, grammar, spelling etc? There are also voice to typing software apps available but I'm not knowledgeable to recommend. Is there a local Deaf Society or similar that you can seek help through?
3) Frankly that paragraph would turn many women off ... arguing that it's agains Anti Discrimination Law is (in my opinion) a very week argument based on the use of victim language. The site is professionally run, Admin do a lot to weed out scammers and that cut n paste is accurate ... some scammers do exactly that.
The thing about talking via a telephone translator ... I don't know the Sorensen system but there is something similar in NZ to help deaf people communicate with hearing people on phone - I discovered it by chance when I needed a builder.
It's a very cool system for practical matters (like talking to a tradesperson) but I really don't think very many people would be interested in using it for conversations of a personal or romantic nature ...' Maybe people will add to the thread and tell us both ?
I just did a quick 'google search' using keywords DEAF DATING USA - almost half million listings, and the whole first page was listings that would suggest there's a lot of services there that have been created by and for deaf people who want to date.
That's NOT IN ANYWAY AT ALL telling you to 'not be here' OK !!!
As you've said yourself COMMUNICATION IS IMPORTANT ... and if you can't communicate well here then ... well, I guess this thread was created out of the frustration you're feeling, right?
:-) Maybe it's like fishing ... if you wanna catch trout you don't fish into the ocean from a pier, and if you're shark fishing you'll not find those in an inland lake eh!
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1) If you can write all that i.e. all of the original thread post ... you can write an e-mail, it's not beyond you.
One of the attractions of the site, not to mention one of the obvious 'protections' is the degree of privacy offered by having mails sent 'here' rather than to private, personal everyday email addresses etc. If a person is 'not entirely a good person' then they can simply be blocked here - whereas if they have been trusted with 'off site' details then maybe they turn into a stalker.
Also, scammers DO operate on web sites and CS Admin are pretty good at ferreting them out. BUT once the conversation goes off site that 'protection' is lost ... so many (esp women) will insist on using CS and not give personal details till they feel 'sure' about the person who contacted them.
2) It's pretty much essential that any man who makes contact with a woman can communicate 'at her level' and in her own language. Forgive me if I;m wrong but I don;t think deafness gets in the way of understanding the use of language ... sentence structure, grammar, spelling etc? There are also voice to typing software apps available but I'm not knowledgeable to recommend. Is there a local Deaf Society or similar that you can seek help through?
3) Frankly that paragraph would turn many women off ... arguing that it's agains Anti Discrimination Law is (in my opinion) a very week argument based on the use of victim language. The site is professionally run, Admin do a lot to weed out scammers and that cut n paste is accurate ... some scammers do exactly that.
The thing about talking via a telephone translator ... I don't know the Sorensen system but there is something similar in NZ to help deaf people communicate with hearing people on phone - I discovered it by chance when I needed a builder.
It's a very cool system for practical matters (like talking to a tradesperson) but I really don't think very many people would be interested in using it for conversations of a personal or romantic nature ...' Maybe people will add to the thread and tell us both ?
I just did a quick 'google search' using keywords DEAF DATING USA - almost half million listings, and the whole first page was listings that would suggest there's a lot of services there that have been created by and for deaf people who want to date.
That's NOT IN ANYWAY AT ALL telling you to 'not be here' OK !!!
As you've said yourself COMMUNICATION IS IMPORTANT ... and if you can't communicate well here then ... well, I guess this thread was created out of the frustration you're feeling, right?
:-) Maybe it's like fishing ... if you wanna catch trout you don't fish into the ocean from a pier, and if you're shark fishing you'll not find those in an inland lake eh!
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Hurt feelings ... all I can say there brother is 'Get Over It'
It's NOT IN ANY WAY discrimination according to any law that I ever heard of if a woman is simply 'not interested' for whatever reason ... and that still applies whether she doesn't like your face, the colour of your skin, the religion you follow, the absence of religious beliefs, whether you're missing arms, legs or intellect ... she ( and us guys too ) have the absolute right to choose who they reply too or ignore.
You might think it rude and insulting to hear 'No, not interested in dating a deaf person' but y'know ... that's called being honest !
I've said many times that ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS ... the act of NOT REPLYING paints a very clear picture that the person written to IS NOT INTERESTED !
I hope I've managed to write plainly, clearly and simply so that you can understand ... if you wanted 'advice' it would be this (and it applies to every single person on the planet too !
a) Look at the goal I'm seeking
b) Identify all of the obstacles to achievement
c) Be ruthless with myself and realise that the only things that I CAN CHANGE are those elements that relate to me personally ( Like, I wanna date a runner ... I'd bet get really fit! OR 'I wanna date a deaf person I'd better learn US Sign Language' )
I worked with some great trianers over the years so I'll leave you with a tip from Brian Tracy ( Canadian guy - he's a legend)
Don't waste energy on complaining or trying to explain ... just do the things you CAN do !
Best wishes ... and make your own luck ... we all have to ;)
Hurt feelings ... all I can say there brother is 'Get Over It'
It's NOT IN ANY WAY discrimination according to any law that I ever heard of if a woman is simply 'not interested' for whatever reason ... and that still applies whether she doesn't like your face, the colour of your skin, the religion you follow, the absence of religious beliefs, whether you're missing arms, legs or intellect ... she ( and us guys too ) have the absolute right to choose who they reply too or ignore.
You might think it rude and insulting to hear 'No, not interested in dating a deaf person' but y'know ... that's called being honest !
I've said many times that ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS ... the act of NOT REPLYING paints a very clear picture that the person written to IS NOT INTERESTED !
I hope I've managed to write plainly, clearly and simply so that you can understand ... if you wanted 'advice' it would be this (and it applies to every single person on the planet too !
a) Look at the goal I'm seeking
b) Identify all of the obstacles to achievement
c) Be ruthless with myself and realise that the only things that I CAN CHANGE are those elements that relate to me personally ( Like, I wanna date a runner ... I'd bet get really fit! OR 'I wanna date a deaf person I'd better learn US Sign Language' )
I worked with some great trianers over the years so I'll leave you with a tip from Brian Tracy ( Canadian guy - he's a legend)
Don't waste energy on complaining or trying to explain ... just do the things you CAN do !
Best wishes ... and make your own luck ... we all have to ;)
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Gives thread a bump to keep it alive for Mr Humble ... I'm sure other's must have some thoughts ... I'm sure that at least the kinder thoughts or at least gently expressed would be welcomed ????
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as i said to my friend the other day,due to the fact..of intoxination..of the outer infringments...the provication...of such magnification...allows the decelleration of the inner motivation,,,thus exsposing the outerlimitation....thereof. not only that.one must consider the...liebilitation of intereaction of the said probocation in respect to the former.
supereradication with intent leads to exstream..indoctrination....of thos already in exsternal de cafiniation. only people with mummeyfortiforcation..will benifit....jmo....
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truheart1941: its obviouse..that you are a man with a low education.... low life......
Gi ower ... even an authentically 'thick' Geordie can act at an intellectual level several random doctorates above the average London Pride swiller !!!
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Why don't you use Google Translate or other text translator and try to chat to them by email as that would be most people's preference for initial contact.
1. I am sure if she had a deaf baby, she would deal with that when the time came
2. Real-life dating would be more suitable for him as online dating requires the ability to communicate in writing.
3. I don't know if there is a question there.
You used the word discrimination a few times. Everybody who isn't what is perceived to be 'normal ' is discriminated against in some way.
You can either keep talking about it or toughen up.
Every person here has been rejected for one reason or another - too short, too old,too young, too fat, too thin, etc.
If they all blamed discrimination and said their feelings were hurt then they would turn off prospective partners even more.
People will either like you for you, or they won't.
1. I am sure if she had a deaf baby, she would deal with that when the time came
2. Real-life dating would be more suitable for him as online dating requires the ability to communicate in writing.
3. I don't know if there is a question there.
You used the word discrimination a few times. Everybody who isn't what is perceived to be 'normal ' is discriminated against in some way.
You can either keep talking about it or toughen up.
Every person here has been rejected for one reason or another - too short, too old,too young, too fat, too thin, etc.
If they all blamed discrimination and said their feelings were hurt then they would turn off prospective partners even more.
People will either like you for you, or they won't.
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HexagonKeySet: Gi ower ... even an authentically 'thick' Geordie can act at an intellectual level several random doctorates above the average London Pride swiller !!!
emmmmmmm.thats true...ha well back to the drawing board....
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truheart1941: emmmmmmm.thats true...ha well back to the drawing board....
Good man !
Now that we've made peace between north and south ... shall we start tidying up some of the more minor global problems ... MIddle East, North Korea, USA etc ???
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Yup All the best, looking out for yah buddy! 
Soph
Settle down, relax, take a good check.
Hex is very cool.
Time to refresh dude.
faatura
Sophie
Soph
Settle down, relax, take a good check.
Hex is very cool.
Time to refresh dude.
faatura
Sophie
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Hey buddy Hex,
Great good news hear from you again and glad you did stopped by here again. I am really do appreciate with that your comments. I already did asked to removed this post through custom service in few days ago but haven't removed it yet. However when they have enough time to get my report. I don't know unsure if they will removed or not but I hope so. Look at last comment a woman start like you. Go for it. ha Good luck to you for find a right woman for you. it is pretty tuff. I did keep talking with woman from Russia and I am so pleasant with her so far since Sept 22 until today. Julia is super woman ever the best I have. She is very humble honestly person with me. We shared email and photo daily with very positive, happy,lovely letters,She start to learn register ASL class course, It is so thrill for me with her so far. I am so happy that she still interest in me long time so far. So I want says Thank you for you did help me a lot understand that this. you are awesome guy that all woman will easy find you for your positive things.Woman like it to hear from you. I don't care if custom removed post or not and keep this post I mind. Let everyone learn something new. I think it is fun to read it. it is important share with people's know out of the world, I hope the world are peaceful one day. Have a good weekend. peace brother
Great good news hear from you again and glad you did stopped by here again. I am really do appreciate with that your comments. I already did asked to removed this post through custom service in few days ago but haven't removed it yet. However when they have enough time to get my report. I don't know unsure if they will removed or not but I hope so. Look at last comment a woman start like you. Go for it. ha Good luck to you for find a right woman for you. it is pretty tuff. I did keep talking with woman from Russia and I am so pleasant with her so far since Sept 22 until today. Julia is super woman ever the best I have. She is very humble honestly person with me. We shared email and photo daily with very positive, happy,lovely letters,She start to learn register ASL class course, It is so thrill for me with her so far. I am so happy that she still interest in me long time so far. So I want says Thank you for you did help me a lot understand that this. you are awesome guy that all woman will easy find you for your positive things.Woman like it to hear from you. I don't care if custom removed post or not and keep this post I mind. Let everyone learn something new. I think it is fun to read it. it is important share with people's know out of the world, I hope the world are peaceful one day. Have a good weekend. peace brother
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HexagonKeySet: Good man !
Now that we've made peace between north and south ... shall we start tidying up some of the more minor global problems ... MIddleEast, North Korea, USA etc ???
yes i have been thinking about that...and have i have come to the conclucion..that thos countries...should wash their own backyards.save....waiting for others to do it..... Now that we've made peace between north and south ... shall we start tidying up some of the more minor global problems ... MIddleEast, North Korea, USA etc ???
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truheart1941: yes i have been thinking about that...and have i have come to the conclucion..that thos countries...should wash their own backyards.save....waiting for others to do it.....
Puzzled look ... you do realise that a good deal, if not in fact most of the trouble in the world today arises out of a) the random lines drawn by the US/AK allies after WW2 and b) the exuberance of the arms trade ?
Perhaps if our great countries were involved selling hose pipes and brushes instead of bombers, bombs, mines, grenades and guns we might hope to see cleaner, rather than bloodier yards?
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HexagonKeySet: Puzzled look ... you do realise that a good deal, if not in fact most of the trouble in the world today arises out of a) the random lines drawn by the US/AK allies after WW2 and b) the exuberance of the arms trade ?
Perhaps if our great countries were involved selling hose pipes and brushes instead of bombers, bombs, mines, grenades and guns we might hope to see cleaner, rather than bloodier yards?
yes indeed..you get my drift.....Perhaps if our great countries were involved selling hose pipes and brushes instead of bombers, bombs, mines, grenades and guns we might hope to see cleaner, rather than bloodier yards?
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I can imagine GW Bush and Tony Blair arriving at the Pearly gates of Heaven and being stopped by St Peter ... who show s them a re-run of their conversations, their invention of phoney WoMDs and the years of misery that have followed
Their response, a well rehearsed duet
That's Blair in the black dress ...
Their response, a well rehearsed duet
That's Blair in the black dress ...
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I am new this site and I notice myself that Whoever any woman want me write email to her and I can't because I am not good at English writer. I would love to answer their question thur with Sorenson video phone relay service opr an interpreter for deaf n let you check it out n what look like sorensonvrs. It's a lot easy for me all answer with their question for confess while you write down for my answer.
I am not English level idiom translate to America/English sign language's hands level idiom. So They won't call me and want me write their question for my answer for only email. I tried to explained to them but seem like they don"t get it where my point is yet. How We can communicate thur with it ? But seem sound like she want force me write down for answer and what I do I believe What call that It is discriminate force on me write.
Like for Example for 1 of 3 : 1) " I always thought to wonder know What if she want to have kid someday, What if baby born for being deaf and wonder How she can communicate with deaf baby ?"
2) What if " My father met woman on this site n she want him write down for her question answer and My dad don't know write English n He is hearing person. He quit his school 7 th grade because of his father War 1 n 2 and Dad help to support his own family. I always wonder to How she can communicate with my father without no write.
3) This site rules warn said "Scammers, who don't know English, often do not even know what their emails say. Sometimes, they will put the same letter in their profile narrative that they use to mass email people with." I really don't think as such good idea for that " " because It's part of ADA Law.
Done for Example all above of 1 of 3.
If she will call me thur with her private block phone number and she have right to tell Sorenson video relay service an interpreter opr before call me for her protect. There are no charge for that call long distance bec of follow with Sorenson's FCC rules.
Pretty as so far about between 10 to 15 beautiful different woman reject on me because won't call me or turn me off. I anti think so it would be not fair n hurt my feel. I total felt waste my time for nothing wrote a lot words repeat it over again. It is not worth my time write email for her. sometime i have hard time dont understand their question or big words what was that mean word. I think It s discriminate.
what I need you big help to explain expanded this site talking about deaf out of the world how they can communicate. I hope this site will change little bit better.
Thank you
Justhumble681