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One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
An expression used as a means of dumping someone, by ignoring them.
Is it the best way of letting your partner know that you're not interested in pursuing the relationship , or a cowards way out? wave
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Oct 18, 2016 8:57 AM CST Ghosting !
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
One2note: An expression used as a means of dumping someone, by ignoring them.
Is it the best way of letting your partner know that you're not interested in pursuing the relationship , or a cowards way out?



Pure coward's way out
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Oct 18, 2016 9:23 AM CST Ghosting !
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
mollybaby: Pure coward's way out


Maybe, but it can spare the other persons feelings & you don't have all the drama of a bad break up.cool conversing
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Oct 18, 2016 9:27 AM CST Ghosting !
naturegal56
naturegal56naturegal56Bloomfield, Indiana USA5 Posts
I think the answer to that question is pretty darn disgustingly obvious!
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tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Happygolucky4u: An expression used as a means of dumping someone, by ignoring them.
Is it the best way of letting your partner know that you're not interested in pursuing the relationship , or a cowards way out? Are you trying to say something??????



lol, I would give someone a reason, cold silence is rediculous.beer
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Oct 18, 2016 9:32 AM CST Ghosting !
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
naturegal56: I think the answer to that question is pretty darn disgustingly obvious!


Don't be too hasty.. Sparing someone's feelings can be a civil way of breaking up , rather than the blunt truth.
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Oct 18, 2016 9:33 AM CST Ghosting !
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
One2note: Maybe, but it can spare the other persons feelings & you don't have all the drama of a bad break up.


How is it sparing the other person's feelings?

It is more likely to add to them rather than sparing them. The fact that you couldn't even be bothered enough to break up face to face with them.

Not all break ups are bad. Not all break ups are drama-filled.

People should man-up.
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Oct 18, 2016 9:35 AM CST Ghosting !
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
tomcatwarne: lol, I would give someone a reason, cold silence is rediculous.


I have total respect for your input , considering the vast amount of times you've been dumped.tongue laugh wave
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Oct 18, 2016 9:37 AM CST Ghosting !
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Cowards way out.
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Oct 18, 2016 9:39 AM CST Ghosting !
Neropa2
Neropa2Neropa2Longford, Ireland2 Threads 11 Posts
Not nice at least say it's over or bye.
Please don't come back several months later.
Which has happened to me lol
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Oct 18, 2016 9:39 AM CST Ghosting !
Neropa2
Neropa2Neropa2Longford, Ireland2 Threads 11 Posts
Not nice at least say it's over or bye.
Please don't come back several months later.
Which has happened to me lol
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Oct 18, 2016 9:41 AM CST Ghosting !
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
mollybaby: How is it sparing the other person's feelings?

It is more likely to add to them rather than sparing them. The fact that you couldn't even be bothered enough to break up face to face with them.

Not all break ups are bad. Not all break ups are drama-filled.

People should man-up.


I agree , if it was a serious relationship & that the other party was under the impression that the relationship was leading to something more concrete.. But there are times when silence or ghosting, speaks more than any words can.wave
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Oct 18, 2016 9:45 AM CST Ghosting !
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Neropa2: Not nice at least say it's over or bye.
Please don't come back several months later.
Which has happened to me lol


Sounds like they were keeping their options open..
laugh wave
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Oct 18, 2016 9:50 AM CST Ghosting !
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Ccincy: Cowards way out.


It it more than my life's worth , to dump a woman when there's sharp objects in the facility .doh laugh wave
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Oct 18, 2016 9:51 AM CST Ghosting !
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
One2note: I agree , if it was a serious relationship & that the other party was under the impression that the relationship was leading to something more concrete.. But there are times when silence or ghosting, speaks more than any words can.


Nope. I will never agree.

It is better to say it to the person one way or the other.

Closure is important.
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Oct 18, 2016 9:56 AM CST Ghosting !
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
mollybaby: Nope. I will never agree.

It is better to say it to the person one way or the other.

Closure is important.


Ok, I'll give you an example!!
Say for instance, you found that after a few dates, you found him to be very boring, as well as a lousy lover.. What words would you use , to terminate the relationship?
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Oct 18, 2016 10:02 AM CST Ghosting !
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
One2note: Ok, I'll give you an example!!
Say for instance, you found that after a few dates, you found him to be very boring, as well as a lousy lover.. What words would you use , to terminate the relationship?


I don't think we have much in common or this isn't working out or (to feed his ego laugh ) I would say that he could find somebody much better suited to his personality than I am grin


I would know after the first half an hour if he were boring anyway. But I mightn't know that he is a lousy lover quite so soon snooty
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Oct 18, 2016 10:03 AM CST Ghosting !
One2note: Ok, I'll give you an example!!
Say for instance, you found that after a few dates, you found him to be very boring, as well as a lousy lover.. What words would you use , to terminate the relationship?
give him the bill. or cut his nuts off.professor rolling on the floor laughing laugh laugh
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Oct 18, 2016 10:06 AM CST Ghosting !
One2note: That may the reason why you only date pensioners, because , having already acquired their freedom pass, you don't have to fork out the extra expense for the bus ride home.
thats true.....most of the woman here....have their free bus pass....grin rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 18, 2016 10:12 AM CST Ghosting !
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
truheart1941: thats true.....most of the woman here....have their free bus pass....



That's the men comfort
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