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Oct 18, 2016 10:59 AM CST Ghosting !
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
tomcatwarne: If she's no goon good in the sack, it may be his fault.
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Oct 18, 2016 1:45 PM CST Ghosting !
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
The best way, to my opinion, is to be straight and say.
""Our relationship is heading the wrong way,and it does seems
none of us is doing the right thing,correcting the situation.
So is best for both of us, to part ways."""
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Oct 18, 2016 2:17 PM CST Ghosting !
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
One2note: It's happened, not very often but it has happened.. I just take the hint & move on. Simple.


Have you ever done it to another conversing
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Oct 18, 2016 2:24 PM CST Ghosting !
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
WittyandWise: Have you ever done it to another



He's never got the opportunity laugh
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Oct 18, 2016 2:26 PM CST Ghosting !
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
mollybaby: He's never got the opportunity


He writes with experience of one who has laugh
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Oct 19, 2016 3:01 AM CST Ghosting !
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
I date in RL, if I would have met someone for a date and wouldn't be interested, I would talk to him, and most definitely if we would have seen each other a couple of times.

On here - if someone stopped emailing me, I simply would know he is chatting to someone he is more interested in. If I wasn't interested, I'd rather just stop communication - in the unlikely case he would get back, I'd just tell him I'm not interested in anything with him.
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Oct 19, 2016 4:13 PM CST Ghosting !
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
WittyandWise: Have you ever done it to another


I'd be lying if I said no.. But it's obviously with someone I had little or no contact with.laugh
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Oct 19, 2016 4:34 PM CST Ghosting !
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
fifitrixibelle: spoilsport


Maybe one day when I'm tanked up.. Just to be on the same level.cheers laugh
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Oct 19, 2016 4:35 PM CST Ghosting !
Prairriescooner
PrairriescoonerPrairriescoonerBridge City, Saskatchewan Canada4 Threads 1 Polls 28 Posts
One2note: An expression used as a means of dumping someone, by ignoring them.
Is it the best way of letting your partner know that you're not interested in pursuing the relationship , or a cowards way out?


That is just outright cruel !
Have some respect for people's feelings even if you have none. Maybe you are just trying to get something stirred up and aren't really a coward after all.
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Oct 19, 2016 4:40 PM CST Ghosting !
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Prairriescooner: That is just outright cruel !
Have some respect for people's feelings even if you have none. Maybe you are just trying to get something stirred up and aren't really a coward after all.


Me??? I was just asking a question, I didn't say it was a tactic I would apply .cheers
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Oct 19, 2016 4:41 PM CST Ghosting !
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
One2note: Me??? I was just asking a question, I didn't say it was a tactic I would apply .



You've already said you do laugh
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Oct 19, 2016 4:49 PM CST Ghosting !
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
mollybaby: You've already said you do


Nothing gets past you.detective laugh

I think we've all done it in some kind of form.. But if there's real feelings involved, I wouldn't know, as I'm usually the one who gets dumped.dunno laugh
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Oct 19, 2016 4:55 PM CST Ghosting !
naturegal56
naturegal56naturegal56Bloomfield, Indiana USA5 Posts
I can see why.
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Oct 19, 2016 5:15 PM CST Ghosting !
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
mollybaby: Are you sure it wasn't you were ghosted after that?


Well , I do have an early start in the morning & my memory isn't what it was.confused laugh
There are certain cases when chains are involved , in which case, I'm tied down for the night .doh laugh
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Oct 19, 2016 5:18 PM CST Ghosting !
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
jimgi: Maybe not putting your finger on was some of the problem ?


I tend to date intelligent women, so every word I use , must be long & hard. And that applies to all things.banana laugh
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Oct 19, 2016 5:21 PM CST Ghosting !
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
jimgi: Maybe not putting your finger on was some of the problem ?


I was trying to ask him that.laugh
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Oct 24, 2016 4:15 AM CST Ghosting !
gh_o_st
gh_o_stgh_o_stNYC, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 282 Posts
Remember! Ghost never forgive, never forget, always haunt!
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Oct 25, 2016 2:02 AM CST Ghosting !
gh_o_st
gh_o_stgh_o_stNYC, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 282 Posts
gh_o_st: Remember! Ghost never forgive, never forget, always haunt!


ups...Ghosts, of course...there are many of them at this site.
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Oct 25, 2016 2:08 AM CST Ghosting !
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
gh_o_st: ups...Ghosts, of course...there are many of them at this site.



Well, it is nearly Halloween tongue
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Oct 25, 2016 2:14 AM CST Ghosting !
Rumples
RumplesRumplesManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK592 Posts
One2note: An expression used as a means of dumping someone, by ignoring them.
Is it the best way of letting your partner know that you're not interested in pursuing the relationship , or a cowards way out?


There's definitely a cooling-down period where you hope the person you're currently with isn't too autistic or blinded by love to miss the unspoken obvious.

Normally if the relationship meant anything then sooner or later you owe the person some kind of explanation following on from a period of ghosting. Ghosting at least takes the surprise out of being dumped even to those without the balls or skills to face reality sooner.
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