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Dec 17, 2016 10:19 PM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
Hi all, I am wondering...if someone you were interested in dating had a medical issue, would you still consider dating them?
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Dec 17, 2016 10:30 PM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
It would all depend on what kind of medical condition they had.
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Dec 17, 2016 10:31 PM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
Ccincy: It would all depend on what kind of medical condition they had.


nothing contagious or life threatening
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Dec 17, 2016 10:34 PM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,223 Posts
Imasquirly1: Hi all, I am wondering...if someone you were interested in dating had a medical issue, would you still consider dating them?



I was interested in someone who had a medical condition. I even went above board and did a lot of research to guide them in what they should and shouldn't be doing.
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Dec 17, 2016 10:35 PM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
rizlaredonline today!
rizlaredonline today!rizlaredNot in Cebu City, Central Visayas Philippines89 Threads 2 Polls 5,588 Posts
Imasquirly1: Hi all, I am wondering...if someone you were interested in dating had a medical issue, would you still consider dating them?


I have enough problems keeping track of my own health risks, the idea of that increasing would terrify me. so no, if the medical issue was a serious one I would keep them in the Friend zone
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Dec 17, 2016 10:56 PM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Imasquirly1: Hi all, I am wondering...if someone you were interested in dating had a medical issue, would you still consider dating them?




I don't even care if she didn't have health insurance, if someone is interested in me, well, hello.
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Dec 18, 2016 4:06 AM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
It depends on the impact it has on someone's life and in that regards to my own.

If someone can life a normal life it wouldn't be a problem. As people age, most have something bothering them healthwise.

If someone I just met has ED it is a no for me.
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Dec 18, 2016 4:12 AM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
I would have to know what it is that they struggle with.
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Dec 18, 2016 4:21 AM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
Imasquirly1: Hi all, I am wondering...if someone you were interested in dating had a medical issue, would you still consider dating them?
.......well put it this way.........I would,nt date anybody on here.....after being on here.....I now relize that most of the woman on here....should be locked up in padded cells.......and throw the key away....pyco.s..and crazy crazy crazy grin grin giggle giggle giggle
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Dec 18, 2016 4:24 AM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,699 Posts
We all have medical issues, some more serious for denial and other medical complications.. conversing

wink
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Dec 18, 2016 4:26 AM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,699 Posts
truheart1941: .......well put it this way.........I would,nt date anybody on here.....after being on here.....I now relize that most of the woman on here....should be locked up in padded cells.......and throw the key away....pyco.s..and


Hey Pete.. wave

psychos.. laugh
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Dec 18, 2016 4:29 AM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
bohemianjack: Hey Pete..

psychos..
hi yer jack.......wave wave wave yer raving lunatics........laugh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 18, 2016 4:35 AM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,699 Posts
truheart1941: hi yer jack....... yer raving lunatics........


Sometimes feels like a cross between an online night club and an insane asylum.. laugh

rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 18, 2016 5:28 AM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
Rumples
RumplesRumplesManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK592 Posts
Imasquirly1: Hi all, I am wondering...if someone you were interested in dating had a medical issue, would you still consider dating them?


There's quality of life on one hand and how much I like/love the girl on the other and if either drops low enough them I'm going to leave.
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Dec 18, 2016 5:28 AM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
Imasquirly1: nothing contagious or life threatening



Is it mental ?? I don't want another mental one!!uh oh


laugh

But sure, if it's not too bad.. You can't help who you fall in love with.. smitten

wine
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Dec 18, 2016 5:35 AM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
Redex
RedexRedexNorthumberland, England UK36 Threads 1,304 Posts
uptall: Is it mental ?? I don't want another mental one!!




But sure, if it's not too bad.. You can't help who you fall in love with..


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing tongue we are all a little nuts uphill or we would be boring old fartsrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 18, 2016 5:47 AM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
Rumples
RumplesRumplesManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK592 Posts
What's odd is how it is easier to die for someone else than it is to live for them. The moment of supreme sacrifice comes easier than the hard daily tasks of endless giving Throwing yourself on the grenade is easier than being someone's Mother Teresa.
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Dec 18, 2016 6:02 AM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
Tresssa
TresssaTresssaOn a Cloud, Devon, England UK2 Threads 207 Posts
Imasquirly1: Hi all, I am wondering...if someone you were interested in dating had a medical issue, would you still consider dating them?


For me it would depend on the severity of the medical condition and what impact that would have to my own health and my relationship with them....I'm not looking to be anyone's carer.
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Dec 18, 2016 6:06 AM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
As others have said, it would depend on the condition.

It would also depend on the person's attitude towards it. If they let it define their life, then no. If they lived life to the fullest despite it, then yes.

I did go out with someone who had a serious medical condition. But he didn't let it define who he was.
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Dec 18, 2016 6:08 AM CST If someone you are interested in has a medical issue...
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
mollybaby: As others have said, it would depend on the condition.

It would also depend on the person's attitude towards it. If they let it define their life, then no. If they lived life to the fullest despite it, then yes.

I did go out with someone who had a serious medical condition. But he didn't let it define who he was.


Are you sure he had it before he met you??? laugh
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