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Dandelion
Southampton, Hampshire UK
Posted: Dec 29, 2006, 1:54 AM CST
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i am one of those guys that beleaves in all ways smile and be nice. i have learned beaing to nice gets you no where. Do you people think there is to nice?
Are you only being nice because you think it will get you somewhere then?! Why not just carry on being nice and if people aren't receptive, then its their loss?!!
Dx.wave
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Hal1949
Carbondale, Pennsylvania USA
Posted: Dec 29, 2006, 11:25 AM CST
I have experienced that a few times,even told by one lady (not from CS) that I was too nice. After a few of those experiences, I taught maybe I should change and not be so nice. But I came too the decision that why should I change,it is not a bad thing to be nice.cool
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TikiGuy
Waterford, Michigan USA
Posted: Dec 29, 2006, 2:24 PM CST
You have to come accross as a challenge. If you are the first guy in line to help her move that will be the only time you ever see her bedroom.
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sexysweeti
Clinton USA
Posted: Dec 29, 2006, 2:30 PM CST
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You have to come accross as a challenge. If you are the first guy in line to help her move that will be the only time you ever see her bedroom.
Tikiguy, that might not be true...I don't like to be challenged to much...it turns me off as a sign of immaturity. I am not talking about you but my experience in general.
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mbcasey
North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Posted: Dec 29, 2006, 2:49 PM CST
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Are you only being nice because you think it will get you somewhere then?! Why not just carry on being nice and if people aren't receptive, then its their loss?!!
Dx.
That is good advice. I had been thinking about this subject for a couple of weeks and concluded that even if I tried, I couldn't be the "bad boy". I just have to be who I am and if a woman cannot accept that, or doesn't want that, so be it.thumbs up
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bobby7
Mission Canada
Posted: Dec 29, 2006, 3:07 PM CST
We are what we are...'Nice' is as nice does..'Nice' always pays off!!

Maybe not today, but, eventually, it will..Ask yourself.."Would I rather contact someone who is nice, or, someone who is nasty"?

There. is your answer!!
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TikiGuy
Waterford, Michigan USA
Posted: Dec 30, 2006, 2:08 AM CST
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Tikiguy, that might not be true...I don't like to be challenged to much...it turns me off as a sign of immaturity. I am not talking about you but my experience in general.
None of you like it - but you respond to it. It's like a subconcious addiction. Mr. nice guy is changing your tires while some other guy is checking your oil. It's like a science fiction movie where females can't see it but it's right there bigger than life.
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blocsiblue
buhl, Idaho USA
Posted: Jan 3, 2007, 10:02 PM CST
Nice guys are great . The only thing I can think of being a problem would be that some females like myself just arn't use to it .
I have had alot of nice guys approach me but I didn't know how to accept things they did. Don't get me wrong Too nice is great for someone who understands being treated in such a way.confused wink hug
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longingformyluv
Pittsburgh USA
Posted: Jan 3, 2007, 10:17 PM CST
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Are you only being nice because you think it will get you somewhere then?! Why not just carry on being nice and if people aren't receptive, then its their loss?!!
Dx.
It's in my nature to be kind to just about anyone who crosses my path!peace
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sweetoutdoorsmen
Watertown, New York USA
Posted: Jan 3, 2007, 10:18 PM CST
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i am one of those guys that beleaves in all ways smile and be nice. i have learned beaing to nice gets you no where. Do you people think there is to nice?
Act normal it will get you farther, instead of putting on a front!!wave
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Dusty45
Louisville, Kentucky USA
Posted: Jan 6, 2007, 11:16 PM CST
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Hey, just do the next right thing. I praise anyone who is doing a nice thing for me, be it a man or a woman. Really, where is it going to get you - being mean - ? It will just lower your sense of who you are even more so than what you are feeling already. Apparently you feel hurt. We all experience that feeling. Just say to yourself, "I've done the right thing, I've done my best in this situation". Then, go on, talk it out like you are doing now, and move on. comfort

Kath
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themanbd1
Van Wert, Ohio USA
Posted: Jan 6, 2007, 11:51 PM CST
I live by 2 rules

1. Be nice

2 When it comes time NOT to be nice - "throw a dollar in that persons pocket and slam change right out their ass"

my .02peace
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TikiGuy
Waterford, Michigan USA
Posted: Jan 7, 2007, 6:19 PM CST
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I live by 2 rules

1. Be nice

2 When it comes time NOT to be nice - "throw a dollar in that persons pocket and slam change right out their ass"

my .02
I love this guy.rolling on the floor laughing
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RainbowSlider
Yellville USA
Posted: Jan 7, 2007, 6:27 PM CST
It is good to be nice to one's self by getting a proper amount of rest; eating right and treating yourself when you can. It is not always easy to be nice to others because their view of nice and yours may not be the same.
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cardsfan23
somewhere USA
Posted: Jan 7, 2007, 6:28 PM CST
im a nice person and it has its downfalls thats for sure. But i dont ever want to change because i like to smile way too much
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Vicki1970
Posted: Jan 7, 2007, 6:38 PM CST
I'd rather be nice to others even if I don't get anything in return. Just making someone happy is a blessing to me! wave
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arabella
Near Farmington, Maine USA
Posted: Jan 7, 2007, 6:42 PM CST
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I'd rather be nice to others even if I don't get anything in return. Just making someone happy is a blessing to me!
Yeah, I consider myself as nice too.

And have yet to get anything in return rolling on the floor laughing

C'est la vie grin
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Pucks
Vernon Canada
Posted: Jan 7, 2007, 6:52 PM CST
well, being an ass wont get you much further.dunno
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CTRocker2006
Griswold, Connecticut USA
Posted: Jan 7, 2007, 6:55 PM CST
Well I have to agree, I have allways prided myself on being nice, considerate and respectful to women....Well I'm here with no one and just dont seem right. cheers
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LiftedFord
Burlington, Wisconsin USA
Posted: Jan 7, 2007, 10:40 PM CST
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Well I have to agree, I have allways prided myself on being nice, considerate and respectful to women....Well I'm here with no one and just dont seem right.
same here, it dont make sense. ive always had respect for women. and ive always been considerate for em too. but it gets me no where with em. and im just being myself.
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